A woman on maternity leave combines dozens of specialties, and performs a lot of cases a day, so do not underestimate it. What are the 10 phrases can never say my mother-housewife?
The modern woman has the right to choose how much time is on maternity leave. Someone thinks it his duty to be close to the baby three years old, and someone goes to work as soon as the crumbs will turn a few months. A woman on maternity leave is very vulnerable, so be careful what you say to her.
You're at home all day, what are you doing?
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Life in the decree is so rich and multifaceted, that sometimes the new mother does not have time to shower and drink during the day hot tea, not to mention something more. Therefore, such questions often asked by people who do not have children and they have no idea how to be a mom. In addition to the constant monitoring and care of the child (to feed, play, take a walk on the street, etc.) women bear life: cleaning, laundry, cooking.
What's stopping you sleep during the day with your child?
"Go to sleep with your child" - the part of the Council could become Mama hear, but it is ideal only in theory but in practice, often turns out that the hour or two of time a woman spends on solving everyday problems or cooking food. Often, what to cook dinner or clean up the plumber with a small child in her arms is simply impossible, so you have to sacrifice something.
You feel good, you're sitting at home
For many decree - this is akin to leave the resort, but, alas, it is far from the truth. Being a mom you need 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, no weekends, holidays and lunch breaks, so to speak, that it is easy, because it is "sitting" at home, at least silly. Employment and development of the child takes a lot of time and effort, requires the involvement of patience, not to mention the walks, all sorts razvivashkah and other children's needs.
Manages to make time for yourself?
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Usually it is said to childless friends sympathetic voice, but not worth it. If before you mother of a young child, then surely it is not getting enough sleep, no time to eat and go to the shower, not to mention the fresh manicure or haircut. Therefore, instead of sympathy, offer assistance, for example, take a walk with a stroller until your friend makes himself a new haircut or manicure refresh.
You ask her husband the money?
For a woman on maternity leave the topic of money is almost always painful, because with access to the decree of money in the family becomes smaller, and the financial costs increase. But, despite this, the couples find a way out, women often work part time in a decree, so your question is very relevant and correct.
Your husband probably makes a lot
Decided to have a second child or third? Be sure to hear that you're probably rich people can afford it again. Often people walk into somebody's pocket is absolutely not thinking about the fact that children's laughter and happiness is much more expensive new car or a trip to Europe. Everyone has their own values, so it is not necessary to measure all of one size fits all.
When a job?
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More than 50% of women after the decree did not come to the former position, it is connected with the fact that changing interests, priorities, and the modern labor market is not very stable. So do not ask about when a woman is planning to go to work, it is better to ask the plans and interests of what it plans to do in the future.
You're such a good mother, only in vain studied at university
It is very disappointing. Do not think that the Decree woman atrophies the brain, and it grows dull or maternity - a cross on his career and the success of women. Many women on maternity leave are working remotely, many people get a second degree of the change of interests, many developing, read books, watch a variety of webinars. So to think that only washes a woman on maternity leave priests children and cooking soup, wrong.
I do not regret giving birth?
This is probably the most stupid question, who can hear my mother-housewife. Of course, life with the advent of the baby changing and will never be the same, but this does not mean that it has become worse. Yes, it is sometimes difficult, but it will not last forever. Children give more happiness than consuming power, so if you have to ask the head like a mother, think twice.
When for a second / third ???
It is also a common question that can hear a woman. And not only from relatives and friends, but also on completely innocent people. How many children to bear and when - it is up to each individual family, so your question is very tactless.
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