When your child turns three years old, you come up with changes that characterize the maturation of your baby - will change his behavior. You will be confronted with the fact that in a period of your child behaves calmly, but then it gives way to emotional outbursts, stubbornness and disobedience.
This is evidenced by the fact that he stops talking about himself in the third person, and now the question, "Who wants to walk?" The kid will answer you, "I" instead of "Misha" (Tanya, Sergei).
Gradually, the child has the makings of independence. And if parents do not understand his aspirations and strive to develop it, then sooner or later there is a conflict between the individual and small adults.
Yes, often it is easier to do something yourself than to teach this kid. But he wants to try everything, and master his own.
It is also important for the crumbs and the adults to be taken seriously his desire. If he begins to realize that his wishes and opinions are not considered, the parents waiting for an entire protest. This period in the life of the crumbs is described as a "crisis of three years."
The mental development of a child of three years, there are signs that are typical of the "crisis of three years":
stubbornness - this feature is shown in the fact that the baby is going to require even the fact that he does not need or that have already got sick at all. To distinguish it from showing perseverance only, only for the fact that pipsqueak perseverance It will be in those situations when it really needs something, and not just "I'm so want".
Negativism - very often you come across the fact that the child began to do the opposite, counter to your requests. Sometimes his actions may even be against his own wishes. The main thing is not as requested.
Despotism - your child may be trying to tell you what and how you need to do is to guide all your actions.
Jealousy - pipsqueak will require increased attention to the person, often through tears, tantrums and whims. Especially pronounced, this feature can be in families where there is a second child. Then it can be shown zero tolerance and zeal for the brother or sister.
Be sure to ask, as it is impossible to punish a child
