You may ask why the child, in principle, are these strange abilities? And here is why. To help the offspring grow up and most importantly - to adapt to this rapidly changing world. By and large - it is, perhaps, one of the most useful skills that modern parents can give the younger umnichki with its unique character and its view of the world.
Editorial Kolobok.uaI figured out how to help children master these skills.
KIND WITH HEALTHY
Agree, very many useful things in practice is not very pleasant for execution. Not only children, but also us, adults. Wake up in the morning in kindergarten, to school and to work, in order to direct the room, do your homework and bring to a final project, writing test papers or reports boss.
Another thing that we have learned to motivate yourself, and the children that science is not yet very well known and understood, so they are because of their age and the nature of the resist that has the strength even very useful things.
What does it mean to "eat the Frog"?
How do we, for example, motivate yourself in the morning? Give yourself another 5 minutochek lie, taking a warm shower, cook a cup of coffee, etc. That is, help yourself to brighten a difficult situation, without destroying the mind and good mood. We "swallow a frog" - perform complex unpleasant duty - rewarding yourself before or after feeling freedom and some nice bonus (free time for recreation, goodies, visit the theater and other desirable gift).
For example, we do the hard work for wages and other pleasant + useful bonuses. There is a "frog" that you need to learn how to "swallow" and without explicit compensation, because it is necessary for the health, intelligence. For example, every day, morning and evening, brush your teeth, read, teach multiplication tables, irregular verbs. Important to teach a child to perform complex tasks ( "swallow frogs"), to take the next step and feel with the winner, "I could not, I did, I'm done!"
IMPORTANT. "Frog swallow" important time and as quickly as possible, without stretching the "pleasure". I did - and free. Wherein the first time should help the child to acquire the habit together with parents: you and brush your teeth before going to bed, with jogging, sit down together to read.
AS "there is an elephant in pieces"
"There is a piece of an elephant" - is to do some sort of a large and complex case on small parts. Sometimes you look at a project and... zazhmurivaeshsya horror. But the eyes are afraid, but the hands (or brain) do. We start slowly, little by little, to do the work, and step by step - taken possession of the entire volume, even if we work at first very frightened.
Do you think a child has no such "elephant"? Large complex poem, the multiplication table or a table of chemical acids, the same incorrect verbs - all of these "elephants" can successfully absorb and metabolize slowly, but regularly every day. Then after some time, "elephant" is becoming smaller and smaller, and in the end - there is nothing left of it. Bingo!
IMPORTANT. At first, the child is not fully understand the technology itself useful skill, "eating the elephant bit by bit" and fumes should help: make certain raspisanie- "menu" and check how the child copes with each piece of work. Praise your child for every little achievement, of course, it is not forbidden.
