Why do their partners idolize some women, give them attention, give them care? And others can be compared with the evil aunts who turned the lives of men into a terrible fairy tale? And the thing is that women of the second “kind” make terrible mistakes in relationships. If you also do this, then rather get rid of such behavior in order to establish communication with your lover!
Refusing help like a cry for help
The point is that some women are used to doing everything on their own, explaining this by the fact that their men's hands grow from the wrong place. But, if you dig deeper, you can understand that by their "I myself" they mean "do it anyway you." So, when a woman says that she will do everything herself, she subconsciously expects a man to do it for her.
But a man cannot guess what a woman really wants, and does nothing. And what is the result? As a result, a lot of insults and accusations pour out on a man, because he does not help, is armless and lazy. I understand that we women are weirdo creatures. But still, you can try at least not to scoff at men?
Silence, because a man must guess everything himself
We, women, have 100 thousand ideas in our heads and good intuition, but what do you want from men? They do not have psychic abilities. They don't take hints, well, they don't! They need to say in the forehead: “I want a fur coat”, “I want ...”. If you don’t want to beg, then tell the man about your dream, for example: “Someday I will have a beautiful fur coat.” It seems to me that this way you will get what you want faster than if you beat around the bush and be offended that a man cannot read your thoughts.
Attitude towards a man as property
And this is when a woman tries to limit the communication of a man with the outside world. She tracks his activity in networks, checks his phone, arranges interrogations, chooses with whom he can communicate, and with whom not, he can come to his work to indicate his status, and at the same time check who the man works with. In general, she behaves as if the man is her property! I want to say that such behavior does not paint women, moreover, it shows their lack of intelligence.
"If you love, let's go to the registry office"
And for men, at the word registry office, the flight mode is turned on. Well, they are afraid of marriage like fire, even if the most beautiful and most beloved is nearby. They need time to prepare, to accept it. And many women are already on the second or third date waiting for them to make an offer! Seriously? Have you looked at serials about love? So the scripts for them are mostly written by women! If, after a month of relationship, you still haven’t heard a marriage proposal, you don’t have to start pushing your partner, hinting, pouting. Just talk frankly about everything, maybe your man thinks it's too early for him to take on such responsibility.
And with your perseverance, you can only frighten off a man. Well, so what, that everyone around is already married, what do you care about stereotypes? You love each other, and at this stage of your relationship, that's enough!
Relaxation after marriage
Many women believe that since they were married, then everything can be relaxed. That is, you used to keep yourself in shape, constantly went with make-up and hair, and now you gave up on it, washed off all the “paint”, made a bunch and went to absorb the borschik with bacon? And why are you then surprised that a man has cooled off towards you? After all, he loved you the way you were, and now you have turned into a completely different woman. If it is important for you to remain loved for your partner, boyfriend, husband, then never forget about maintaining your attractiveness!
Do you make these mistakes?
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