Many divorces in our world happen for the reason that the couple, before getting married, did not fully realize that they are now a soul mate for each other. When a woman consents to marriage, it means that she agrees to be FOR her husband, she becomes a faithful companion of her man, a keeper of the hearth, support, helper, loving and caring. And what about men? Men should also understand that if they marry a woman, then she becomes their life partner. Companion! That is, he is in first place, and she is in second. And all the rest later!
Why is he on the first? Because it is impossible to love others and be loved by others without self-love. And the choice of a spouse must be approached consciously, having carefully considered everything. She becomes the person who moves forward with a man throughout his life, hand in hand, until the last day.
That is why men should know that a spouse should always be higher than other people, namely ...
Children
Yes, children are important. Their appearance in the family is an important event in the life of parents. But the whole life of the spouses should not be devoted exclusively to them! If a man does not put his wife first, he will not have well-groomed, beautiful and healthy children. She will not be happy, children will not be happy! In addition, it is worth remembering that children will one day grow up and scatter to their families, and the man will remain with his chosen one alone!
Virtual women
We usually say that all men are polygamous. I probably agree, this is all according to the law of nature, but this does not mean that you need to run like a ram after with all the sheep... Yes, a man may wish, but you need to pacify your imagination in time and descend from heaven to the ground. A woman desired by a man cannot always become a reliable companion. In addition, it is worth remembering that cheating is a pain for a wife, and cheating has never led anyone to success! Even rash flirting can lead to dire consequences!
Other women
If virtual women remain on the Internet, then real women are always at hand. Crises occur in any couple, and it is important in difficult periods not to succumb to debauchery. The most important thing is to endure everything with dignity and honor and get out of these very crises. Think about it, it is unlikely that another woman will be better than your wife. Living and walking are completely different things. Treason is not satisfaction of needs, but real betrayal, this is dirt, this is humiliation of the wife.
Moms
Yes, no matter how strange it may sound to someone. Mom is undoubtedly one of the most important people in the life of every person! But you are not a mama's boy, and we must remember that the umbilical cord has long been cut. You should, as before, show understanding and respect for your parents, but remember, mom should never be above your spouse!
Friends
You can be friends with people from childhood, but a wife is completely different. No one forces you to choose one, but it is worth remembering that your spouse is above friends. She is your companion, friends can come and go, but the spouse remains. In addition, a true friend who values your relationship with him and respects you will never interfere with your marriage!
Virtual friends
And again about communication on the Internet. You can communicate as much as you want, but it is not at all necessary to transfer such communication into your real life! And even more so, there should be no question of putting virtual friends above your spouse. This is stupid to say the least!
What do you say, men, do you agree?
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