Using the example of harmful advice, psychologists want to show how important it is for babyso that the parent not only teaches him, but also sets an example.
Double standards are not OK.
You teach the children to follow the rules of the road, and then you run over to red because there seem to be no cars on the road.You force your child to play sports, but you yourself do not lead an active lifestyle.
You teach your child not to talk to strangers, and you yourself begin to conduct conversations with random companions with the child.
You force your child to clean up the room, but the clutter on your desk does not bother you.
You tell your child not to gossip, but you wash someone's bones with him.
There are an infinite number of examples, and they all boil down to the fact that a parent allows himself what is forbidden for a child. So that the child does not have logical questions, there are two options.First, a parent can make sure that bad habits are shown only when the baby is not around. Secondly, the prohibitions can be explained in more detail. If a child asks why you just crossed to red, explain when adults might do this.
Recall
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