Every mother wants to make her child happy, tries to raise him as a real person. But many flirt too much, show a lot of care and themselves turn their children into helpless and unfit for life. Many mothers turn their sons into irresponsible ones with their own hands.
How do mothers make irresponsible men out of their sons?
I am sure that the women themselves, who raise such irresponsible sons, would never marry such men for anything. In their "little ones" there is no independence, masculinity, responsibility. One cannot say about them what is behind them, like behind a stone wall. And without reliable walls it is impossible to build a good strong house.
And a real man is not born like that. Parents lay the foundation. Everything comes from them, from their upbringing. Here mommy is running after her son, wiping his nozzles, preparing food, blowing dust off. And then bam, and my son is already thirty, and he is not going to leave his mother, he does not help around the house, he lies on the couch all day, he does not go to work. And my mother begins to dream that the "darling" will finally get married. This is certainly surprising. She can't cope on her own, it's hard for her, it's hard, and let the other woman suffer? After all, the mother did not invest in her son respect, care and love for women, and she wants to be picked up? And they will pick it up. Only then will the mother herself condemn and blame her daughter-in-law for everything, they say, she is wrong with her husband talks, she has a lot of demands, and in general the son was normal, and in a quitter with such a wife turned into.
If a mother treats her son as a helpless creature throughout her life, then he will grow up like that. And then either mom herself or his wife will wash his socks, clean his shoes, and spoon feed him! If, from childhood, yes, no, from infancy to treat his son as a man, then he will not treat his mother and in the future treat his wife as a servant.
But no, many mothers themselves show their sons that they do not need help, care, that the "little ones" are weaker, and the mother is strong an impenetrable wall, which will even "stop a galloping horse"... The mothers themselves form their sons such an attitude to life and to people.
By trying to tie a child to her skirt, a woman interferes with his development. She herself suppresses independence, masculinity. Then, of course, wives of such boys appear, only they are strong-willed and powerful, because the sons themselves are looking for such, in the image of mothers.
Sometimes mothers of already grown-up sons bring their sons to job interviews! But the men themselves are not even ashamed, they believe that it should be so, they have no other idea and do not know how already.
Mommies decide for their sons where they will study, where to work, with whom to be friends, with whom to build relationships. Thus, women themselves deprive their children of the will, turning them into lack of initiative and weak character.
A man by nature has a desire for achievement and conquest. And mummies are very clever, with their own hands they extinguish it all in their sons. And there are men who understand that only strength can withstand strength, and become aggressive and rude.
Mothers, you yourself are making your sons irresponsible!
Many guys feel it intuitively and run away from their bossy mothers in time. For example, they run to the army, or to study in another city. And rightly so, and most importantly, they act on time! Mothers do not need to extinguish independence in their sons. When the boy said for the first time "I myself", then it is already worth giving him the power. Let him dress, eat, go to the store, clean up, wash the dishes, etc. Let her help at her own request, or at the request of her mother. Successful men begin to realize early on that their own opinion is the most correct.
And mothers should be advised to pay more attention to themselves, their own interests and desires. Take care of yourself, moms, and let your sons go their own way and make decisions for themselves!
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