These phrases are so toxic that they can eat away at absolutely everything - love, respect, intimacy, trust. They do not bring physical harm, but they cause pain to the soul and heart, leaving a trail that poisonously destroys the whole person.
Even if your relationship breaks down, never use these toxic phrases, or you could lose your loved one forever!
"Since you think so, let's get a divorce!"
It seems that you are just waiting for a reason, an excuse to part with a person. Believe me, in your own words you will not make a person fall in love with you more, regret that he began to quarrel with you. He will only regret that he was blind, and did not see the real you before. If you are so simply ready for divorce, if you do not care about his opinion, then go ahead!
"L hate you!"
You didn’t like something - the words, the deed of your partner, although in general nothing more than terrible happened, and you, in a fit of anger, with hurt pride, shout about your hatred. And for what? So that the person really knows that you hate him? You can then apologize for a long time, and the partner will most likely understand you and forgive you, but the trace in his soul will remain forever. This phrase sounds just like "I don't love you anymore!"
"You're being stupid!"
We are all not perfect, and we can do or say stupid things. But, you must admit, it is unpleasant when they tell you straight on the forehead that you are stupid! Everyone has their own cockroaches in their heads, their own corrals and their own quirks. Therefore, you should not be so critical, be more free about other people's mistakes and behavioral features. For you, something seems meaningless, but for a partner, maybe the opposite.
"Of course, a man will think so!"
This is tantamount if a man tells you to go about your women's affairs, and not go there, in which you know nothing. Maybe not worth it with your partner? Wouldn't you be offended by similar words on his part? Show understanding, empathy, do not get angry, control yourself. Each person has his own specific view of the same situation, so why is he not entitled to express his opinion?
"The conversation is over!"
It has just begun, but it is unpleasant to you, and you decide to put an end to it. As a result, a wall will appear between you. It is imperative to talk about all the problems that arise in a couple, seek a compromise, negotiate. Otherwise, you will lose love, just don't need to say now that you don't care! You should not always think only about yourself and your feelings, become more indulgent towards other people's feelings!
"All in your father / mother!"
Even if you think so, don't say it out loud. What will your partner do if you tell him this? First, he will think that you hate his parents. Secondly, he will try with all his might not to be like a father / mother, because of this, nerves, psychos, scandals and so on will begin.
"Leave me alone!"
If the conversation is unpleasant for you, it is better to remain silent, or invite your partner to talk a little later. But we will definitely have to speak. But you shouldn't just shut his mouth with your “leave me alone”!
"Just relax!"
This phrase refers to difficult life situations. Let's say your man has serious problems at work, and you just wave your hand, saying - “Oh, never mind, forget!" If your man could relax, then he would have done it a long time ago, so this phrase is definitely here inappropriate.
That, it would seem, well, what is it about these phrases, because “everyone says so,” “everyone lives like that,” and blah blah blah! However, psychologists have proven that ordinary words, even without physical impact, can poison a person's soul and kill love in him!
Think about it!
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