If someone has hurt you, don't rush to plan for revenge. Everything in life always comes back like a boomerang. Your offenders will get what they deserve. But don't do anything, just let go, and forget your grievances. One day the one who hurt you, who betrayed you, who plotted, will face the same thing.
And you know, this is not karma. I'm not talking about her now. I'm talking about ordinary human life. We all suffer in it. Someone suffered before, some now, and some have everything ahead.
Perhaps someone suffers even more than others, and this seems somehow unfair. But this is the truth of life. One day she makes us suffer especially in those very moments when we did not expect it at all. We are visited by thoughts: "why", "why", etc. But the fact is that life is so arranged, everyone has to experience pain at some point.
Only everything seemed so beautiful and rosy to you, when suddenly something went wrong. Everything collapsed. And it can be so not once, at such moments sadness, sadness and even despair covers. At such moments, it is especially difficult to remain a prudent, calm person, and carry out your actions rationally.
If the pain we feel is caused by another person, then the first thing we think about is revenge. We want to hurt the offender just as much. For him to suffer, to feel bad, unbearable, just like us. We are waiting for the moment when life will punish the offender, when life itself will get even with him. And so, we are waiting, but nothing happens, and this causes a depressed state. Why it happens? Is everyone really against us? No it is not!
Life will definitely put everything in its place, everything has its time, everything comes back. Once, at the most inappropriate, perhaps, difficult moment in life, everything will certainly return to your offender, so much so that he does not even understand where and for what. And maybe he will understand, maybe he will guess that he is getting what he deserves.
One day, your abuser will be in the same position as you, and will be punished by life itself. This is a simple fact about energy. We always get exactly what we put into this world.
Someone thinks this is just a coincidence, someone is karma, the boomerang law. You can call it what you want, too, but the truth is that each person ultimately gets what he gives. If he gives good, it returns good to him. Perhaps not immediately, and then, after a while. If he hurts, and lives happily on to himself, this does not mean that he will go unpunished. Everything will overtake him, it's only a matter of time! A person always gets what he deserves in society, at work, in the family.
And so, when your offender gets hurt, he will feel broken and helpless, the way he made others feel, and then he will receive his retribution.
Do you know what is the difference between you and your abuser? In personal growth. Bad people just harm others because they just never learn from their experiences. But you are growing! You are growing while they are suffering the same pain they have caused you.
And your bullies won't know how to deal with their pain. They will be broken, and you will, on the contrary, be collected in pieces as if reborn from the ashes.
So stop worrying right now. Your pain is still so fresh or your wounds are healed - it doesn't matter. Just forget, the person who hurt you will someday receive the same pain in return, or maybe even more.
Don't think about it. Endure the experience and live on! Take only the good out of everything that happened, get up and say goodbye to the offenders. Just don't take revenge! The pain you have been given will one day return to the abuser!
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