No woman is immune to the emergence of domestic tyrant in his life. And no woman deserves such a "happiness." How to understand the early stages of the relationship, that this man can become a home tyrant? About 10 signs of the man, prone to domestic violence, please see: Kolobok.ua.
The problem of domestic violence, not only in the fact that the closest person can turn family life into hell. But that often die from domestic violence. This subject is very important, not in vain November 25 women activists are celebrating the Day without violence. So how do you know that you are in a relationship with a possible domestic tyrant?
controls
At first, the control may not greatly excite a woman, because the future of home tyrant brings it under the "sauce" of care and love. It monitors the time of arrival and leaving women to work, angry if you stayed on the job or meet with friends. Do not forget to remind you that he knows better, he wants to help and he has more experience. Then he can ask the woman to leave the job to take it under financial and psychological control.
jealous
Prospective home tyrant - jealous. He says he loves you and is not willing to share with anyone. He's jealous of you to my parents, brothers and sisters, friends.
irascible
It starts with sex trafficking, and during an argument can throw things on the floor, break the dishes and threatening. Such a person can easily hit.
Experienced domestic violence
Your chosen one severely punished, hit beltHumiliated, and he believes that other methods of upbringing he did not understand? Model of violence it can move in their relationship, after all beat for him - it means to love.
Narrows the circle of friends
He says that your friends envy you and wish the evil that parents want to embroil you with them. Just a tyrant is always trying to narrow down the communication to one person - his favorite. So a "trap" of domestic violence will be slammed shut.
Spares no other
he easily engaged in a quarrel and fights, does not spare children and animals. Such a choice would not mind to put a hand on their loved ones.
Poor speaks about former lover
If your chosen one "throw mud" ex-girlfriend or more, it means will also do this to you when you run away from it. And yes, this is another reason to think about why this "holy" person come across such "terrible" woman?
Use force during an argument
At first, he does not hit. Rapist never begins to beat with the first argument. But it can dramatically grab you by the hand to throw on the sofa and shaking shoulders.
blames
In his life everything is bad, because the guilty parents, former lovers, president, Bill Gates (underline). If around always blame others, then this person - emotionally immature, and therefore can strike. Another detail on which you want to pay attention, after an argument he blames you, it was you brought him.
Aggressive after drinking
If after drinking alcohol, it dissolves the hands, and in a normal state - peace, it can be a potential home tyrant. Simply alcohol reduces the ability of self-control. No wonder they say that a sober mind, then a drunk on language. The same story with assault and battery.
You will also be interested to know 5 signs that the relationship can not be saved and it is better to leave.
