Psychology of family relations - is, above all, cooperation and partnership psychology, which are based on mutual respect and common goals. And, of course, true desire to be together.
The basis of communication skills are always in such key principles as respect for others, recognition of its right to my point of view, the desire to achieve the best results that will satisfy the interests of both parties well way.
There should be no desire to win another, re. Family where someone is someone wins - it's not a family.
Analyze what you are guided, undertaking dispute or drawn into it, why do not want to give up, or at least, take your spouse's point of view, his wife, his opponent.
As a result, what is more important: the next time to "win" a spouse, making yet another contribution to the destruction of the family and then to love left, or, still, your love to your beloved or chosen one?
Rather than perceive their partner as an eternal opponent, which we must win, "put on their place "and so forth., think that your spouse is necessary for happiness, ask him or her about this. You will be surprised, but most likely, you are not that much demand: more attention, care, patience, expressions of love and respect.
Start looking at your relationship is not in terms of what you need and what you can give.
We are not talking about some sacrifices for the benefit of your spouse. It is about understanding the person with whom you live: what it is, something to strive for, what happens to him?
Change the way of interaction: instead of criticizing begin subtly and gently advise or just to pay attention to the nuances that your partner is missing; If you irritate his passion, try to understand them, and even take part in them. Stop to control and take care of a partner or claim and blame.
