5 most common mistakes that after the break

All over! Kaput! You broke up. By mutual agreement, or one of you was the initiator, but the relationship ended. Perhaps you now is not very good. Whatever it was, do not make these 5 mistakes!

For many, the gap becomes an excellent chance to think cons previousrelations and convert them into advantages for the sake of future relations. But many people often do things that should be avoided. And the 5 most common ones.

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Pursue former or someone from friends
Not literally play Sherlock. But calls and should not be written, and even more so to see his friends or colleagues. Also bypass the side of his page in the social networks. Ideal disable social media for a week or second or leave on a business trip abroad. So you learn to live alone, and that needs to be done after the break.

Visit places of former glory
Under the tree you first kissed. Here he plucked flowers from the flower beds. And here you are on the bridge We met your first dawn. Get round your meeting room to the head is not to sink in the former relationship. While the acute phase of grief subsides, which is about m

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esyatsa, walk in other places - the benefit of their missing.

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Imprisonment
Red eyes, rubbed his nose, stretched pajamas and you so sad-pregrustnaya. Immediately evident are experiencing klassicheskiyrazryv relations of the Hollywood movies where the bucket with ice cream is not enough. Of course, you can not lead a life of super-active, but do not deny yourself the coffee with her friends or a visit to the gallery. So you will not drown in the experience.

In the maelstrom of head
Only dispersed, but after two days you present a new guy to your friends? What then, you afraid of loneliness and do not know how to live without relationships. Break - a good way to know yourself again. Do not dive into a new relationship immediately, wait one and, when the mountain of separation has come, you will understand that we are ready for a new deeper relationship.

To remake himself in his imagination
Another mistake made by women after parting, reshapes itself in the imagination of his former. They lose weight, buy a sexy dress, repaint the hair. Only one desire: "He must be sorry!" I was doing well only if it is your sincere desire. In the other - it turns out that the former does not regret, but the red dress makes you a poor woman of easy virtue.

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