Motherhood - amazing, but quite difficult burden, someone carries it easily, but someone in order to feel happy, we have to work hard. What advice can share successful mother?
Many women prefer to combine work and motherhood, and either do not go on maternity leave, or leave them to him as soon as the baby turns a few months. How could combine motherhood and a career and still be successful and happy?
Time for Mom
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Every mother - wants to be the best for your baby, and often, in the weather for the perfect, completely forget about themselves and their needs. But my mother, without effort and energy, alas, can not do anything to my family, so please create a rule, 1 hour a day to devote only to yourself. Make a mask, go for a manicure or shopping, see a series favorite series that you like, but this time only dedicate himself beloved.
Do not be afraid of separation
It is a long time in the decree, so mom is moving closer to a child, often afraid to release him from me even for a moment, in vain. The child must learn to be independent, in addition, after a separation of your communication with the child goes to a whole other level. Do not be afraid to let the baby away from you for a while, believe me, it will benefit both you and him.
Be successful
Successful and realized my mother will give the child a lot more, so say psychologists and examples of well-known European mothers. Especially if the mother is working on a favorite work and passionate about their work, this is a great example for the younger child.
Do not chase for the perfect
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Pursuit of the perfect keeps up with guilt and depression, let it go. If you are a working mom, it is quite normal, if you do not have time to wash floors or cook on Udin pasta with sausage. Do not blame yourself that by selecting a job, you can not learn with your baby five languages and going to ballet school. Do not gnaw yourself, your choice was certainly justified, so enjoy it and do not aspire to become perfect. For your baby you are the best mom.
Delegate responsibilities
A child born in the family and he has two full parent. Yes, Dad can not breast feed, but it can wash and hang the laundry, cook dinner and take a walk with the baby in the park. Do not pull all by yourself, and learn how to share duties and responsibilities in half with her husband. It make your life easier and give the man the understanding that the child is not so easy.
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