How to raise a child? What are the principles of education is right and what is delusion or so outdated that without a smile is no longer perceived? How not to overdo it with the parental control and the care ...
Yes, do not lose sight of the child's development. With the difficult questions faced at least once, even the most well-read parents. Because you want to give your baby the most of the possible and not to overreact.
Rules for Parents
1. What you want in your baby, good habits, it is necessary to cultivate the whole family.
Sounds complicated - in practice very simple. If a pipsqueak can not see you with a book in his hands, and only sees the computer and the phone, it would be strange to expect that he would love the book. And you say in the future about the harm of computer games will be extremely convincing. Ask vital reference their daily life, and you'll always be sure about the development and future of your child!
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2. More work - less rigor. The rigor is necessary, but only at certain times. But to calm the crumbs to direct his attention and at the same time "untie" your hands on a - while help creative techniques.
So instead of being irritated to call my child to behave and sit quietly "in one place" is much more effective to carry around in crowded places paint, wax crayons or ball clay in the bag, and the house always have a supply of paints, natural and free-flowing material (large pasta, chestnuts, acorns, cereals, dried watermelon seeds, "smart sand"). So the kid always find something to get excited about.
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3. Mode - the head of everything. Do you want to get a relaxing and joyful child - enter his regime.
Around the same time going to bed, lifting the major activities (eating, bathing, walking) helps the nervous system "embedded" in the day to function optimally. Instead of being located in the additional voltage at the time chaotic distribution.
4. The alternation of activities. Kids - people are fastidious. They get bored easily. Because equip playgrounds and sports area, children's library of space and "wet" games - so your child will be busy always different and always interesting activities.
5. Enter the athletic activity. What it will be - the baby - fitness, yoga, tumbling on mats, dancing, mastering the wall bars or horizontal bar, swimming or joint charge with mom... Choose to your taste! And do not forget physical activity tempers organism and harmonizes development.
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6. Talk to me, Mom! It so happens that the baby hears the mother of the only duty the words that accompany everyday life - Rise up, get dressed, give, eat... However, for the development of rich and beautiful language, as well as for the development of the nervous system requires a variety of speech Wednesday.
The more words pipsqueak hear, from the very first day of life, the better. Because anything you want, just do not be silent. Leave the prodding and the duty it beyond the threshold of your cozy apartment. Let the kid hears stories about everything that surrounds it, let obtains information and weather, that it is necessary to buy music, let him hear poems and reading until completely incomprehensible adult books... Let him hear a quiet and intense emotions of adult speech people. Richer tone - richer development. Richer vocabulary - richer life!
7. Do not forget to thank. Yes, thanks to a huge force. No wonder the sages say that the most important prayer - these are the words of gratitude. Teach your baby to thank and thank him yourself. The heart and with joy. You will see how calm and happy will be your life.
8. Share responsibilities. Sometimes the mother is difficult to decide on the complexity of their lives - the most easy to remove, get, set the table, wipe the dust... We understand. But, if you do not share their responsibilities, the kid never learns the price of labor. And adolescence can not be a worthy mate. To avoid this, offer feasible business as natural. Regularly and fun. Buy a bright cloth and watering can... You'll see how happy pipsqueak will begin to help you!
9. Enter in daily life to music. Its language is comprehensible outside of time and age. And the sound waves are an ideal source of harmonious development. Therefore, let your home music library includes the rhythmic, classical music, instrumental experiments in the popular genre and relaxing sounds of nature. Offer crumbs to enjoy a variety of sounds and instruments... even if the child grows up a musical gourmet and connoisseur of beauty.
10. Less use the word "no." And for this, simply pay attention to your impulses. Sometimes we refuse crumbs, simply because we are so comfortable, quiet, quiet... And it is a dead end road to development.
Because leave in the arsenal of prohibitions only on security. Everything else was trying to explain, let, give the opportunity to be... What will be the result? To you start to look closely at the playground and think that you have the good fortune to bring "Indigo." In fact, people will not be far from the truth.
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