What to do to cope with the hysteria kid and do not allow your child to manipulate you?
Tantrums happen absolutely all children. It is a state of rapid release of uncontrollable emotions when the baby is feeling powerlessness and anger from what he can not do or immediately get what he wants.
Almost all children go through this period. It is therefore necessary to establish rules of behavior that will help to minimize the effects of children's tantrums. They will not let the tears and cries of a foothold in the child's reactions as the main way to achieve the desired.
rule №1
When you see that the baby begins tantrum, try to switch his attention. This trick works perfectly on children under three years. But do not give your child sweets: it will lead to the development of the mechanism of "tears / candy", and the child will actively use it.
Rule number 2
Stay calm: count to ten, take some deep breaths. After that, the desire to yell at a child disappears. If you do not pay attention to the child's whims, it may be more effective than you You will be angry because children often arrange tantrums just to get attention adults.
Rule number 3
You can not yell at the child, punish tantrum, especially unacceptable slap. The task of parents - to return the baby in a calm, normal. Hug the baby, stroke, his calm sound of his voice.
Rule number 4
During a tantrum is not worth trying to hold educational talk: a child you simply do not hear. Talking quietly about the ordinary, interesting kid stuff - Curious, he stopped crying.
Rule number 5
If the child cries for a long time and stomping feet, stay up late, do not tear and do not go on concessions. Your peace of mind and firmness of the child inspire confidence that the incident of grief is nothing terrible will happen, and life will go on. Otherwise, the baby starts to perceive any failure as a fatal accident.
