Our life is divided into time "before birth" and "after he was born." When our family comes baby, the whole way of life and the idea of it changed dramatically and some things take on a whole new meaning. For example, if the first talk at the table on the theme Physiology you seemed totally unacceptable, now you can easily talk about how your pipsqueak today pokakal and chew at the same sandwich.
We hasten to reassure - this is perfectly normal, and all of these changes in your life and world view are absolutely inevitable.
Normally, if the house is not ideal order.Immersed in a bustle, and caring for the child, for the cleaning will no longer be time. From proudly referred to as "general", it will be reduced to maintain the required hygienic minimum. One day epiphany occurs (perhaps a few months after birth, and possibly years): you, standing in the middle of the room, as if for the first time to see this whole mess - have not washed the windows, no curtains erasure, scattered toys and stain of something sticky on floor. And suddenly with horror realize that you "ran home."
Do not worry! This is normal. Just you were absolutely on another wave, and now it's time to gradually restore order. Perhaps if you do not know for what to catch, it makes sense once invited assistant of the cleaning service. Let her put things in perfect order, that you will try in the future to maintain.
Normally deadly tired, but continue to do what you want. Remember, when after a hard working week, you could afford for the weekend wrapped in a blanket and lain all weekend on the couch watching TV? So forget. Mom - it is work 24/7. You will yourself to be surprised, as after a sleepless night, at 7 am, you can safely get up to the plate and cook baby porridge, and then - go for a walk with him. What mysterious force still allows you to stay on your feet?
Becoming a mother - you will automatically turn into a super-hero. Although if you have the opportunity to at least from time to time delegate to someone the authority to care for the baby and it's time to devote to yourself - it would go only to the benefit of both you and your child. Do not refuse from any help. And if a neighbor volunteered to walk with a stroller in the park, better take a nap instead of having to deal with urgent and pressing matters.
Ok to spend the weekend productive everyday. Especially if you have already come to work, weekends are now not days of rest, and the day for which you need to do everything: grandparents, family outings, children's events, visit the Food and cleaning. This is an incomplete list of what you have to do at the weekend.
Normally change their ideas about how to raise children. Surely, even during pregnancy and baby planning you have read a lot of literature, magazines and forums about the care and education of children, and you have developed a certain picture in my head as right.
But now, when you have a kid, you break a lot of things that seem important to you, while he was gone. Sometimes you even feel a sense of guilt for it and feel like a "bad" mother. Stop it! All children are different. Listen not to the advisers, and to own common sense and do as you wish.
Normal complain about life.Some people believe that if you complain about the fatigue of caring for a child, you're a bad mother. Good should experience a constant joy of motherhood. You - a living person, who forgot about their needs, devoting all the time and the baby to tire in this case - is perfectly normal! As is the fact that if you complain of being tired - it does not mean that you do not love your child.
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