"We all come from childhood" - the words of a classic very accurately determine that the margin of safety that we get at an early age from his family, helping us the rest of his life. Walozhennye childhood values and world view will accompany the child in the future, and it is not banal words.
As adults, we unconsciously compare themselves with their parents, as if thoughts are asking and what they would do in this case? And if a child in a child is not entrenched useful habits from parents or brought up by them, then wait for their appearance in adulthood, more likely, a utopia than reality. We will not exaggerate, but simply to clarify once again, what is important to pay attention to, if you really want your child to grow successful.
Three pillars of success
In the modern world you need to be, firstly, the dynamic, all prosper, and feel refreshed, and secondly, smart and erudite, to quickly and correctly to take the necessary decisions. And, thirdly, it is important in any situation, be a man, that is, to be kind and understanding, to know how to forgive offenses and to support in trouble.
And only in the presence of these three components in human nature will allow him to be free and harmonious - that I have the pleasure to live in, not to force people to suffer next to each other and to not suffer from complexes and samoedstva.
On the basis of this simple "arithmetic" we, mothers and fathers of their favorite children, it is important to develop them in these three areas:
- physical;
- mental;
- spiritual.
In a healthy body healthy mind
That all have time and do not leave the race to the finish line in this high-speed world, need to be in good shape.
The child is elementary important to be healthy, to sit through classes in kindergarten and school classes, it does not make scoliosis, kyphosis, myopia, gastritis and other troubles with health. And give health physical education and sport.
This seemingly simple hobby like karate or football, give the child a start in life. Optionally, the child becoming a professional athlete - in itself a habit to move, be active, and to achieve results worthy of play is very useful in the future. As well as strong muscles, strong immunity, good mood, will power, self-confidence, responsibility and commitment, which brings up the sport.
Learn to enjoy
Do not cram, not understanding why this is necessary, namely to learn: to seek and use the information to find the right solutions - that's what's important to teach your child. Also, teach your child to enjoy the works of art: books, read together, visit museums, concerts, even if these habits of acculturation you develop at home now, with child. Double benefit! A child with such a wealth of knowledge to feel confident in any society.
Always be a man
In our world today is ruled by the law of consumption - the more I get, the better I am, worthy friend. Quite strict rules of the game, and if we do we will not change that very soon they themselves suffer from. When the stop to support the child financially and can not / do not want to fulfill all his desires. How to be?
Tell your child that there are around people who really need help - the elderly, sick people, abandoned children. If you regularly to discuss assistance to such people in a family council with the child, as well as an example - to collect or take back send to orphanages, visiting children orphanages, to send money to people for medical treatment, to donate blood donors - those good deeds will teach the child in the future to give some of its heat to others, and, above all - their mother.
