Some babies perceive trips to the garden literally "hostility" and every day in kindergarten fees are converted into a war - with a quiet whimper or loud tantrums. Abandon the kindergarten do not need - "nesadovskie" children are not a necessary stage of development and much worse adapted in school. The solution is to identify the causes, of which the child does not want to go to kindergarten.
Start "kindergarten" of life and the introduction to the children's collective, with its strict rules and routine turns the whole way of life of the child. Instead mum - the teacher, instead of favorite toys - kids around strangers and class schedule, instead of the usual food - kindergarten chefs creations with the need to eat it all. Some children adapt quickly to others it is given more difficult - they cry, they want to go home, refuse to eat and may even get sick.
The food in kindergartens simple and standard - soups, cereals, omelets, casseroles, jellies, compotes. Not all kiddies it's taste, besides the preparation of "culinary delights" in large volumes all possible - porridge is burnt, onion floating in the soup big slippery flakes. The child refuses to eat, and the teacher insists that all need to eat, and lumpy porridge and milk foams, and quickly and without whims. In the course of going and persuasion, and threats, and prolonged sitting at the table, when all the children had gone for a walk. It is clear that the desire to go into the garden this daily torture does not add.
false accounts in kindergarten, and children who are looked after too, making it impossible not only to express their opinions, but also to acquire the necessary skills of self-service. Above them are the other guys laugh, teachers too are dissatisfied with "Digger" or "messy", requiring a lot of extra attention when dressing or eating, himself a child may express their desire to whims, which is also not conducive to "inject in team. "
Avoid common mistakes that for any reason, the refusal of the child from the kindergarten only exacerbate the problem. You can not: to show the kid his anxiety; scare kindergarten; deceive crumbs - calling the time of his coming, keep their promise; allowing manipulation, to yield to the entreaties; criticize kindergarten or its employees at the child.
As you can see, the reasons for which the child does not want to walk in the garden, are quite diverse. Their correct definition - already half the solution. Do not remove from the baby, try to create and maintain a relationship of trust with him - it will help to identify the reasons and solve the problem. Most importantly - do not resort to drastic measures and do not give up all the way from kindergarten, depriving the child's socialization and development opportunities.
