If your young offspring of a curse brought from the street, above all, do not panic. Obscene words in the mouth of a child does not mean that you are a bad mother, and it will grow in the future, a bad person. This is a common expression, the value of which he does not yet understand.
Gently ask if he understands the meaning of the word, which had just said. Explain that these insults offend the person to whom they are directed, "This is awful word, they can not be called a woman. It can cause pain and embroil the person with you. Aunt Nina was very upset when I heard it from you! "
Continue to emphasize the fact that the foul language has on others very negative impression. Those who are constantly swearing and foul-mouthed, unable to gain prestige in the community. Now in vogue polite people!
Suggest his offspring competition: watch each other and mark occurrences harsh words. Tracking other's speech, he will be a child to speak correctly and culturally.
You will not be able to resist alone, if curses thrive in children's team. The best way out - to unite with other moms of teenagers and teachers.
Don'ts:
scold and beat for obscene expression;
shame on the people, it can lead to severe psychological trauma;
isolated from their peers (transfer to another kindergarten or school), that you can not solve the problem;
pulling "ticks" source of swear words of the child, so as not to spoil relations with him;
say that this bad habit he owes to his father (according to many moms, this man shows a bad example for the children).
If there is bad language, then your child may they "catch". Discard the threats and intimidation, and try to understand what lies behind the obscene phrase - the desire to express themselves, attempt to self-assertion, a cry for help or just mindless repetition.
