You have been looking for him for so long - the best, the only, attentive, inimitable. You have forgotten all the bad things that came before him. You also began to forget about the good, because with him it became a hundred times better. With him you are alive, real, wanting to live.
You felt a special connection with him literally from the first minutes of your acquaintance. You've had bad relationships and bad guys, but when you met him, you suddenly felt like you found your home. You felt so comfortable next to him, and so calm!
You with him suddenly, at last, felt alive, as if you had not lived before, but existed, but with one single purpose - to someday meet him, the very same one!
When you met him, you were able to take a deep breath, and you did not name your relationship in any way, because you yourself knew everything perfectly. And he, he felt it too, he understood that there is something special between you, something unlike any other relationship. He looked at you intently, he listened to you attentively, he understood you so deeply! You felt like in a fairy tale.
And then everything began to fade away somehow. He began to change over time. And, the more you tried to show him your love, the more you paid attention to him, the less he appreciated you. Strangely enough, you were completely drawn to him, and he was getting more and more distant.
You experienced the worst pain in your life when you saw that he began to push you away. It was incomprehensible, scary and offensive. Emptiness settled in my soul, the feeling of home disappeared, a feeling of some kind of hopelessness appeared.
You suddenly realized that he is not at all afraid of losing you. He perfectly understands that if suddenly something happens between you, you always take him back into your arms.
Do you need to continue to prove something to him, and fight for this relationship, if only you are trying for them, and he is generally inactive and even spoils them? It's time to stop fighting for a man who is not afraid to lose you! You can fight only for the one who does not just tell you about his love, but for the one who confirms his words with actions, deeds. Understand, no matter how hard you try to convince him of the sincerity of your feelings, nothing will change. Only you are fighting for your relationship, and this is wrong! Because in a relationship where only one partner is trying, there is no happiness, this is an unhappy relationship!
You yourself are depriving yourself of this feminine happiness, a wonderful future, constantly trying to prove something to someone who is not afraid to lose you. You look humiliating, and he already sees that you are humiliated. It is convenient for him to continue the relationship with you, because you are ready to do anything for him. Is he ready for something for you?
Do you love only him and yourself? You have forgotten about yourself, but you need to put personal happiness first. Do this and show your man that you have the courage to just walk away from him. The main thing is to choose yourself, and not him, if he is not able to make such a decision.
It is not easy to leave the person you love with all your heart and soul. But this is the only option for you. Over time, you will realize that you fought for this person in vain. It may hurt you to end this relationship, but it's much better than continuing to live with someone for whom you are absolutely of no value.
Love is different, it is not what you now feel for him. This is not love, but some kind of mockery. It should be easy in a relationship, and it shouldn't be difficult to love someone!
You need to be close to someone who is afraid of losing you. With someone who is able to show their feelings by actions. Make room for him by your side today. Because with him you can not only give love, but also receive it in return!
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