Girls and boys should be educated differently. What qualities do you need to instill in the girl before the onset of adolescence.
Why to adolescence? The fact is that while parents have rarely hear and graft quality can play both the child's hand, and against him.
How to respect and safely express their feelings
The popular stereotype portrays girls whining and hysterical. We are so accustomed that girls are emotional, that do not teach their emotional intelligence. And yet we do not pay attention to their feelings. Crying and crying, that's okay. But everything is much deeper.
The girl must learn to describe the whole range of emotions: happiness, sorrow, melancholy, nervousness, agitation, confusion, fear. Thus, when she will meet with these emotions in adolescence, it could describe them and survive easily. Another important for parents to learn to respect the child's feelings, to suppress their daughter is not in the future, and shared with them the most cherished.
How to be gracious to him
Girls are very self-critical. Any failure they experience more difficult. Studies show that teenage girls may be at greater interpersonal stress than boys. This makes them more prone to reflect on negative feelings, they are subject to the risk of depression. Parents should teach daughter to cope with stress and be more indulgent to their failures.
How to love your body
Perhaps it has already begun to change or begin to change in the near future. It is important to learn to love your body, whatever it was. One way: sports. Physical activity gives girls the opportunity to see that their bodies are strong and hardy. But even sports girls can still feel a sense of shame over his body and his sexuality. Psychologists recommend not hesitate to talk about the body from infancy. Parents need to know and use the correct names for genitals and do not be afraid to talk openly about sex. Shy parents pass on those feelings to his daughter.
How to learn from friends healthy relationship
Relationships with friends to help girls learn to assert themselves, to find compromises and to set boundaries. Parents should consider the friendship as an opportunity to show the girls to model healthy relationships with strangers.
How to resist the persecution
None of the parents did not want to know what the child being bullied or, he became the aggressor. But this is the reality, baiting can be. Parents need to teach a girl to ask for help in a difficult situation with them. they must also be taught to recognize bullying. For this girl from infancy to be aware of their borders, not allowing them to break, and she did not disturb other people.
How to be a leader
In the world today we teach girls day before yesterday:they should be flexible, gentle and a good marriage. Not in terms of equal competition in the labor market. The girl should be able to be a leader and to be successful women: Hillary Clinton, Serena Williams and Angela Merkel - that's worthy examples.
Through adolescence, parents should teach the child to lead others. For example, a mother can take a leading role in the work and show a good example of a daughter, or fathers encourage any manifestation of leadership qualities of his daughter.
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