As the famous English saying "Do not bring up their children, they will still like you. Nurture yourself. " Agree, this is a truism. Children - as small radars scan even hidden even our mood, and it is all we have said, or they will instantly wound on the mustache. You've probably noticed more than once that kid who always seem to go about their business, and how to take frazochku will issue from your conversation with her husband, and you definitely remember that at that time talking to each other whisper.
What do you want: our kids eyes open, and the soul open, bright and clean, so do not "zamusorivat" of our older "file". And in order not to spread the idea of the tree - and so you understand everything perfectly - we have 5 most important things that you have in any case should not do in the presence of the baby. Well, a lot of hard, okay?
The ban's number one.
Do not ignore the safety rules.
Since childhood, we teach kids the basics of safety: do not cross the road at red lights, proper use of electrical appliances, do not swim for the buoys, etc.
All of these instructions must be followed not only your child, but you are. We for our children - the authorities, so they seem to superheroes, patterns of behavior. Therefore, mothers and fathers, who with a child's hand run across the road in the wrong place, you can be sure when you are not around, your baby will do the same.Prohibition number two.
Do not lie.
Of course, none of the parents would not want their child from him something to hide and even more openly cheated. "Always tell me the truth," - hear the baby from you. But in order for it to be honest with you, he should feel the sincerity on your part. What to do? Do not lie to anyone in the presence of a child, and especially do not be fooled by him even in the details. Well, maybe, that Santa Claus does not exist until it is not necessary to speak.
Prohibition number three.
Do not quarrel.
It is impossible to avoid quarrels, and if the pair "peace and quiet" - means a husband and wife just cooled off each other. But if the parents still love each other, as a honeymoon, it does not mean that they can throw each other at lightning child. You fight and make up, and the baby will survive serious stress.
The relationship of parents - an example for the baby, looking at them he was a child forms a pattern of behavior with the opposite sex. And besides, the mother and father to the child - the closest people, who associate it with security and comfort. If they start to quarrel, especially quarrel regularly, the child is very anxious, because his life is crumbling resistance.
Prohibition number four.
Do not criticize people close to the child.
Keep track of your conversations, when there is your baby-tabs-on-top. If he hears from his mother that something bad about Dad, Grandma, a teacher in a kindergarten, his fragile confidence and security system will be broken like a house of cards. And the stronger the kid loves the people you negotiate, the more injuries you apply his careless statements in their address.
Prohibition number five.
Do not ask the child's excessive politeness of strangers.
"Tell Aunt" hello "," take candy from Uncle "," wave your pen "- these sugary politeness indicators quite false, and the child is a wonderful feeling, not even hesitate.
On the one hand, these fake "overtures" harm the parents themselves (their authority in a child decreases, because mom or dad fawn on someone), on the other - it is not safe, because you encourage your child to revere another's adult, and next time when you are not around, the child may be on a habit to take candy from someone or someone else to go with him to an unknown location position.
Perhaps we exaggerate, but if it comes to a child, it is better to be doubly vigilant.
