Do you think the child's mind only maim beatings or sexual abuse? Certainly not! Most children are emotionally abused. From family or significant others, such as caregivers and teachers. What are the types of emotional abuse? How to recognize them?
One of the biggest myths that cripple the psyche of children and emotionally bullied only antisocial elements. Often in wealthy families in their educational methodsuse one or more of these four methods.
depreciation
"Mom, I'll be able to" - screaming three-year-angry. "But what can you?! You're still young, "Impairment of people - go hand in hand with a heavy psychological violence. All tyrants, first assure you that without it you will not live. Step by step they plant complexes. Often parents reject the child's ability in good faith, so to speak. But the road to hell is paved with good intentions. The child is three really believes that he can do something, and he'd better just to offer help and encouragement. Can devalue and feelings. A child of 15, rubbing the ink across the face with tears, however believes that it is better Petit her no one will be. And the phrase: "May you have these Sing a million", - it devalues the tragedy of failed love. The same depreciation accompany children during pain. It can not hurt my knee when it gushes from the blood. Then why we are trying to convince the kids?
Humiliation
"Such fools white light did not see!" - constantly remind the kids about this. Suddenly he forgot that he was idiot, stupid and ill-mannered. Only it turns out you are also half. After all, you brought him up, and he inherited the mind exactly who some of you. Worse situation with reference to the physical defects, such as body weight or height. Either a constant reminder of what would be better if the child was born the opposite sex. Not fair to manipulate that person in itself can not change. Believe me, if it were in his power, he would be the first thing you have succeeded.
Make a scapegoat
Blaming the child failed in life or important events. Consider whether to blame the baby so that you only live for him? Or is it your personal choice of an adult? child accused often and that it is similar to some of the parents. And then he has a lifetime to carry the cross, which he did not choose.
ignoring
I'd rather it will ignore than beat or humiliate. So many people think parents. They are mistaken. On the emotional color, ignoring the ranks with physical violence. If you do not respond to the children's spontaneity, such as gifts, you will reject it. By ignoring the concerns: the lack of protection of the child from the criticism of others adults rejecting emotions. Thus the behavior of a parent simply translates: "You do not exist for me."
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