Childless friends who go to fashion events, build a career, doing shopping and spa. They contribute to our world of diapers and baby food variety, telling what's new out there - "in the wild". At the same time terribly naïve ask questions and talk very strange phrase. And to understand that we are so amused and surprised by their remarks, they will be able only when themselves become mothers.
They are not yet clear that parenthood - is hard work that takes away from us all the time and effort. But when your baby with love looking into your eyes or take you by the hand, said the first "mama", hugging his neck and smiles at you, you realize that all this is worth it.
Why did you never take the tube? Because the phone always rings at the wrong time: when I was baby diaper or hands smeared with dough. Or an older child urgently need to share with mom super-news at this moment.
You can take the child with him.Undoubtedly, only at the beginning we will be a long time to dress up and get ready. And then, 15 minutes stroll through the mall, we will need to go home - to eat or sleep. A seating in the café turns into a toddler running around behind the tables.
Why are you no longer come to visit us? Because a child is much easier on their territory, where everything you need at your fingertips and it is possible to adhere to the sleep mode and power.
Why do not you just find them a babysitter? Because a good nanny in reality from the sky do not fall down on the umbrellas. And a stranger leave its children is not easy.
You're a different person! Of course, the scope of my interest has shifted significantly from fashion shows and night gulyanok toward the playground. This is called "Stockholm Syndrome."
Why do not we hang out, as before?Indeed, why after hectic days and sleepless nights, not to go somewhere else to hang out. I'm full of energy and there is a small chance that does not go to sleep even on the way to the club. Just do not let my children!
I'll come to you until the baby is sleeping? Not! I have at this time a lot of plans: pet clothes, cook dinner and a nap next to the baby. 90% of parents want to be left alone until the child is asleep.
Call me back in 10 minutes. Most likely, it will not be today. In the best case, tomorrow or next week. And what if my children do not hear that I take my phone, and they urgently from me something that is not necessary.
We need to meet more often! I do not mind, but parenting takes me all my free time and my day to adjust to the children of the day mode.
What do you mean, 9 pm and too late ?! This means that 9 pm - my time and I do not want him to share with anyone. Children go to bed and I'm just enjoying the silence. I do not want to go to a cafe. I just want to lie on the couch and watch stupid TV series, enjoying the fact that right now do not have to run anywhere.
Be sure to ask also 9 signs of "toxic" parents, to make sure that you are not.
