Children may behave differently. Even experienced parents often come to a dead end, not knowing what to do with their offspring and not knowing how to react to his behavior. Before you 15 tips for parents to help you better understand your child.
Often the baby wants to say something to the parents, but mom and dad wrong decipher their message, why the situation can only get worse. However, there are several ways to the faithful, how to decipher the "bad" behavior of the child, to establish the cause of his actions and "hear" what is actually the child wants to "say" their behavior.
Aggression It is seen in children at a time when they are afraid of the situation, and they do not know how to handle this, so the veil his feelings for the obnoxious behavior of the aggressor.
Hyperactivity and restlessnesssignal the child that it is terrible, and it needs to establish clear rules on the part of parents. For example, this behavior indicatinga parent, a child waiting for their support and the support
Apathycrumbs may be due to the fact that he is afraid to make a mistake, and that means that he does not get approval from their parents. On a subconscious level, he expects only a conviction for his attempts to any action.
helplessness the child indicates that his "nothing" it helps mom feel needed.
When kid has parents, It in no way an adult can not do the same in return. Firstly, this behavior shows a child that he did not know how else to behave in this situation, and secondly, a manifestation of their aggressionhe tells his parents that he needs their solid prohibitions.
Theftin children is manifested in the case when it is desperately in need of love and care from adults and so they demonstrate their anger at the situation.
hair pulling child tells his parents about his strong internal stress
When child speaks in a very low voice, it is not associated with a physical ailment - the child is afraid and shy to express themselves not only in society, but also for parents. He is shy and afraid of their desires, is in a stressful condition that it will not accept the way it really is
When malysh starts biting her nailsIt is necessary to reflect and take a closer look, what fears and stressful situations it can be connected. Often this is associated with the stress of long and frequent separation from her mother.
When child eats a lotThen so it appears the feeling of high anxiety, and the food helps him fight this feeling. The process of eating food crumbs compensates the lack of emotional intimacy with his family, where he was very much in need.
Conversely, when child eats little, By his behavior, he says he is not ready to "digest" the situation in the family and thus keeps it from a distance.
Low self-esteemthe child indicates that your habit is to only give advice, but do not support and encourage the child's actions
Crybaby- it is the child who can not talk about their desires just as afraid of being rejected by all, and therefore achieves its only through moods.
False the child is manifested in the case before the parents had a negative reaction to his mistakes.
If the child was wetting the bed and clothes, so the family began to happen something that makes him very anxious.
Assigning someone elseeven in the case when parents purchase a sufficient number of toys, it indicates that the child is deprived of the right to choose when buying.
secrecy It is seen in those children whose parents are annoyed at the slightest pretext.
Cowardicechild shows in cases where mothers and fathers too quickly rush to the aid of his crumbs, helping to overcome the difficulties encountered. His cowardice child tells their parents that they should give him as much as possible independence.
As strange and sometimes unbearable, the child himself did not lead, do not think that he is doing it to spite you. At times he did not understand his actions, as his mind can be still not fully formed because of his age. But in most cases, the child is simply a subconscious level applies any way to find common ground with their loved ones. And if the baby will be surrounded by care, attention and love from their parents, then he will not have occasion to once again be capricious or hooliganism.
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