Question to bear or not to have a second child, of course, be discussed with the children. But many parents want an older child was ready for a junior. How do you know that the baby will not be a burden to the older?
How to understand that the child is ready for a brother or sister? / istockphoto.com
He asks you about the brother or sister he
These kids truly want the house had a second child. However, they often think that that would be his age and with it will be complete game. It is necessary to explain that the baby will be crumbs, then you will understand exactly how much the elder brother or sister wants.He likes to play with babies
If your child likes to lisp with babies, they are interesting to him, he is ready for a toddler in your home.
he is an independent
A child can itself serve elementary: eating with a spoon, can undress and dress with the help of others, sleeping separately. In this case, he was used, that my mother is not bound by 100% to it and will not be jealous of the kid too.
It was a crisis of three years
Up to three years, the child is very attached to her mother, after the passing of the crisis three years he becomes more independent, and less painful perceive the appearance of "rival".
If the child is not ready for a baby in the house, that is no reason to delay pregnancy. A child can be prepared for the emergence of a brother or sister during pregnancy. And even if the senior has all of the above symptoms - it does not mean that you completely avoid the problems of jealousy and rejection of the baby in the house.
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