"Sharing is not necessary", - is spoken by many psychologists. And they are right on one side. On the other, the child goes to the garden, where common toys. And this skill will not be superfluous. What if the baby does not want to give her, and loves to take someone else's? You can teach him to share?
"This is mine!" - the baby cries at site, hardly anyone comes to his belongings. Mom in this situation immediately divided into two camps: "You do not necessarily share" and "need to share". Both are partially right. The kid really is not obliged to share their things, but then it must be prepared for the fact that no one will give him his toys. A stranger to the child's play - for a sweet soul. Then how to teach to share without violence against a small person?
Share with your child. You - a prime example for the child. If you give him his belongings, he realizes share - okay. So you teach him that in spite of the temporary possession of another person, his clothes still belong only to him and to his return.
Do not punish threats that will give another toy. This is a sure way to teach a child to be greedy. Threats result in the fact that he will defend his property at any price from strangers, and suddenly take away?
Me on and encourage this behavior. Force to force to give their toys not necessary. Explain that you can change your teddy bear to behold the machine and play it. Do not forget to focus on the fact that the toy he necessarily return. And see to it. So he will trust and share willingly.
Play games. Model the situation with the baby on the site. Or show it with a toy. Here Bear Peter wants to play machine bunny Vasey. They change and have fun playing together.
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