Raising a child - is a very difficult and painstaking work. But sometimes, the parents lose control, and may use corporal punishment to something to teach the child.
It turns out that hitting a child is not only useless but also harmful. Proof of this are the American study. To hear the views of foreign pediatricians regarding Physical punishment of children.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) makes a statement that is directly related to the upbringing of children. After spending a lot of research, it was found that corporal punishment does not bear any good and can greatly harm the child's mind. Also, analysis of the relationships in the family, which use physical punishment, showed that long-term result of such an approach in the education of the least productive. Other forms of discipline are much more effective.
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The American Academy of Pediatrics also states that corporal punishment is closely associated with a decrease in gray matter and low IQ in children. Therefore, experts suggest 7 rules to help review the opinion and child-rearing practices.
1. The children need to be clear and consistent, while educational work.
2. Children need to demonstrate appropriate behavior and explain that it is expected of them.
3. It is important to explain the consequences that would entail bad behavior, and should be ready to fulfill the established conditions. For example, if you threaten your child that will take away his toys when he is not out in the room, then the non-fulfillment of the requirements, you will do so.
4. It is necessary to talk with the child about the problems in his behavior, and always listen carefully to his explanation.
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5. One should always encourage good behavior and punished for disobedience.
6. When bad behavior is caused by boredom, then you need to pay attention to your child and find it an interesting exercise.
7. For children it is important to understanding, love and attention. Therefore, even if it is difficult to find a common language with your baby, you should not punish his "belt". Breathe out, and try to talk with your child calmly and without unnecessary emotions.
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