Education of the child is far from hard work. Therefore, the task of parents - to keep kindness and patience with their child. However, other than this child badly needed discipline.
Please note that compliance with the rules to be extended to the parents, but just this moment it is often them and neglected. To what consequences this may cause?
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Your kid is angry fall favorite toy? He often lied to you? Your pipsqueak has appropriate uses bad words? If so, then the time to respond to it as quickly as possible, as this is a sure sign that something has gone wrong. It is important to remember that children absorb everything like a sponge. And they often imitate parents' behavior is up to the sign, not to mention the action. Here are a few obvious signs of the behavior of children, arising as a result of improper training of parents:
Constant crying or irritation It may be an indication that the child is intentionally bothering you because of the lack of an elementary physical contact that is essential to the kid, especially in his first years of life. Therefore, the task of parents is as often as possible to press the child to her, hugging, stroking, kissing. With sufficient body contact with the parents, the child becomes more sedate and less moody.
frequent false from the child, even in elementary trifles, it may be an indication of an incorrect response of parents to the minor mistakes crumbs. Children are very sensitive, which is why a lie - it's just a way to avoid unnecessary shouting and punishment by parents.
Low self-esteem in a child It may be a consequence of the fact that parents often give councils greater than that required. Thereby depriving the baby's parents own the opportunity to have his own opinion. In the younger age children seek motivation from their parents and received less in a timely manner, become passive personalities in the future, so even with low self-esteem.
6 signs of improper upbringing / istockphoto.com
The child takes the wrong things etc.Even in the case when you buy it just enough? This can happen in cases where the child is not involved in the choice of shopping, and uses only what he was given. If you start to involve the baby in the shopping process, this problem will be solved by itself.
Children are too scared usually due to the fact that parents are trying to prevent any, even imaginary danger, while eliminating all the obstacles in its way, gradually killing all the crumbs in defensive reactions, inherent nature. Over time, they become accustomed to the fact that they can not cross any obstacles without parental care. Out of this situation - to try as much as possible to trust your child, providing as much as possible the chance to take on responsibility.
The feeling of jealousy usually it occurs in the background of the fact that you are constantly comparing their crumbs with other children. Therefore, even if you really have someone to compare your crumbs, do not ever do that, no matter how it seems to you, this is the place to be. Every child is unique and each has its own inherent characteristics.
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