One of the important components of a normal relationship is trust. But, unfortunately, some men enjoy the trust of women, and lie to their soulmates without shame and conscience. How do you know if your partner is lying to you? I suggest using these psychological tricks!
How to understand that a man is lying?
Lies in trifles
It is quite difficult to convict a person who really knows how to deceive masterfully in a lie. Before you met your man, he had a life of his own. And, perhaps, there was some girl on whom he honed his skills in lying. He had women who believed him, forgave him, he got away with everything, and he did not even think about the consequences. If it worked with one, it will ride with the other - he thinks, and is mistaken. Be more attentive. A liar will lie even in small things.
Suppose a man said that he would come home from work at six, and he showed up after ten. Well, whoever does not happen to, maybe he met a friend, chatted, anything can happen. Yes, it happens, but in normal relationships they are always warned if they are delayed. If this is not the case, then the man is generally indifferent to the feelings of the second half, and he feels almost free.
Confusion in words
Very often the liar forgets what he has composed. So you can catch this on some details of his story. If you have any doubts about his story, then do not immediately focus on this. You can return to the conversation after a few days, weeks, or even a month. If some inaccuracies begin to surface that differ from the previous version, it is worth considering. Most likely, the man is cheating on you.
Manipulation of feelings
If a man is caught lying, he begins to try to make his half ashamed for this disbelief in him. So he buys time, distracts the woman from the subject of the dispute, manipulates feelings. Here are phrases that a liar can use: "If you don't believe me, that's just your problem, and I don't need a woman who doesn't trust me!" or "Darling, don't you believe me?"
Avoiding important questions
As soon as you start some serious topic for you, the man begins to "move out" from the conversation. Either he is not in a mood, then something hurts, then he is very busy. This directly suggests that the man is not interested in the seriousness and continuation of your relationship with him. This means that you are not important to him, and he will lie to you. Maybe he will lie about the little things, if only because he does not want to let you close to him.
Active gestures
Body language can betray a liar. Yes, he can skillfully lie to others, but he cannot deceive himself. When a man begins to lie, he is very nervous, he is not sure of himself, so gestures are connected.
For example, arms crossed on the chest may indicate a certain way of protection from the second half. If a man scratches the tip of his nose, this is because when he lies, nerves are irritated, namely, there are a lot of them on the nose. During a lie, pressure increases, which can lead to an increase in temperature, stuffiness, as a result - a man unbuttons the top buttons, opens a window, wipes sweat from his forehead.
The relationship between a man and a woman should be based on trust, but only on mutual! I hope these tricks will allow women to understand that their chosen one is completely different from who he claims to be.
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