Don't blame yourself for mistakes. No need to look back with pain and remember that you used to be much better. You should always appreciate what you managed to get, and it doesn’t matter at all what is happening in your life right now! Thank fate and God for all the good things that you have. Always remember that there are people who are much worse than you, who do not have even a little of what you have! Also, if it seems to you that life has gone awry, remember these things.
All will pass
If things are bad now, remember that this cannot last forever. Everything will definitely pass and get better. What you are so worried about now, tomorrow may seem like a trifle to you.
When a person is hurt, he grows
Yes, it may sound strange, but it's true. When it's hard and painful for you, remember the goal you are striving for. You make your way, you fight, you endure, you keep your confidence. Any discomfort in life suggests that you are getting better, growing, improving, changing.
Your mistakes and your failures speak only of your power.
After all, you were able to overcome it, you gained experience, learned a lesson, all the suffering that happened in your life only made you much stronger.
Constantly worrying and complaining is useless
Instead of complaining about your life and worrying about something, go ahead, try, do. Instead of sitting still, take action. Once you stop whining over the little things, happiness will come to you. Thank fate even for the problems that appear on your way, because it means that it has fenced you off from more serious ones!
Pay no attention to the negativity of others
It is impossible to please everyone around, and you should not strive for this. How many people in the world, so many opinions will always be. And these opinions will differ from yours. But you must live for yourself, worry only about yourself, and establish harmony in yourself. You will become much stronger if you go forward without paying attention to the negativity of others.
You have to fight to be successful
You don't have to wait for some suitable good moment to start your action. Start moving forward right now. But be prepared for discomfort, for the fact that you may have to sacrifice everything that is dear to you, that you may face misunderstanding and even condemnation that you will have to move alone. There is no need to be afraid of loneliness, because it is freedom, tranquility, the opportunity to think, relax, understand goals and desires.
Every finish is a start
If one door closes in front of you, another will open. If people turn away from you, it means that they are not your friends, they did not appreciate and respect you, let them go, others will definitely come into your life. If you have not grown together in one relationship, do not be sad, you will still find your love. If you didn’t manage to work in one place, don’t give up, you will still have it! The most important thing is to stay positive, keep fighting and moving forward. The wounds of your life should not turn into bleeding scars.
What has to happen will surely happen
Everything has its time. You will not be able to influence all the events in your life, sometimes you just need to let go of the situation in order to achieve what you want. You need to stop controlling everything, blame yourself for what you can’t do, complain about your life and circumstances! No need to worry, no need to torment yourself with doubts, just live and rejoice, finding positive in everything. Remember, if something is destined to happen, it will definitely happen, just a little later!
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