Most people are very afraid of change. They may feel bad, uncomfortable, incomprehensible to live there and the way they live. But changing everything is scary, it is uncomfortable, and suddenly it will become even worse than it is. Only change can bring you to your place!
A sign that you are finally in your place, the appearance of a number of people from your circle. You have the same interests, you have similar views on life, you feel good together. These are your friends, or maybe colleagues, or maybe a soulmate. You can chat for hours, you give each other gifts for no reason, you get bored when you have to part for a long time.
You feel comfortable sharing your affairs, interests, and even secrets. You are always glad to these people, and they are glad to you. No, of course, absolutely alien, bad, evil will come across, but there will be a few of them. The most important thing is that you will suddenly acquire a new family - a family of relatives and friends.
How often does a person feel out of place. He can have a good family, a good job, prosperity, and it seems to be a sin to complain. But the nasty feeling that everything should be different relentlessly haunts. It becomes unbearable, difficult to concentrate, difficult to rejoice, difficult to love. And it turns out that everything seems to be in order, but the soul is torn somewhere in an incomprehensible direction.
And what's stopping you from taking everything, dropping everything, and leaving, changing your place of residence, place of work, circle of friends. Why are you so sure that you have to sit in one, albeit bad, place? Why are you so scared to leave your comfort zone? Why are you afraid of change? Change is always difficult, it can even be painful, but it always leads to a better life. You will never know how it will be different until you try!
Sometimes it seems that it's too late to change something. Age is no longer young, and maybe even old. Where to run, where to move? But you just have to try! As soon as you get to your place, you will immediately understand that everything is possible in this life! You will get to those people who, it would seem, have been waiting for you all your life. You will instantly find a common language with them, and then you will understand that these are real friends. Yes, true friends are not always the people you know from school or college. Sometimes they become random people you meet, strangers who, like you, were out of place.
You do not have to change your country or city of residence. Sometimes you can just move to another house or change your place of work, and understand that they were waiting for you there! Your life will be filled with a whole sea of new interesting acquaintances, warm communication and even development! Try, strive, strive for your own, and you will definitely succeed!
Do not be afraid. Now you are used to living in your own hustle and bustle, but isn't every day like Groundhog Day? Aren't you tired of monotony, monotony, longing and the feeling that burns you from the inside that everything could be different, that you are not in your place, that you are living some kind of life that is not your own?
It's time to open up to change, change your life! After all, no one will do it but you! What do you have to lose if you just try? Maybe today you should change your life route, just going home from work in a different way, having lunch in a different an unusual cafe for you, smiling at an unfamiliar passerby, talking with a stranger on some topic, registering in another social network. Try it!
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