Sooner or later, a person who tries to sit on two chairs at once will end up on the floor. Here is an example of such a person.
There lived a man with his family, wife and two children. And it was as if he didn’t need anything, he was constantly dissatisfied with something, often rude, always grumbling dejectedly.
“Sash, the New Year is coming soon, it’s time to figure out what we will put on the table, whom we will invite to visit, and how we will celebrate in general,” Olga timidly looked at her husband reading a book on the phone.
- It starts. Again, the vanity, as I was already tired of it. If you want to cook, invite guests, then do it yourself, and I’ll ask you not to involve everything in this, the man growled roughly.
Olga felt a little offended, but then she was distracted, because in the middle of the conversation, the man's phone rang, and he carefully began to look at what was there.
– Sasha, something serious? his wife asked.
“Yes, no, everything is fine, the money just ended on the balance sheet,” the man replied.
- So you need to replenish the balance, otherwise you won’t be able to call anyone! - Olga looked at her husband with sympathy, and then she simply took and transferred money to him on the balance from her card.
- Who asked you? You just spend and spend money, - the reaction of her husband was quite expected for Olga, - I didn’t ask you, who needs it, he will get through anyway, but I can save, I don’t want extra spending.
Olga began to collect clothes for washing. In the corner, she found 3 socks almost worthless from their staleness, and the fourth hid in the back of the sofa. With a fight, the woman begged her husband for his dirty T-shirts, and, finally, having won, loaded everything into the washing machine. The husband muttered something there again about the fact that you shouldn’t touch his things, that he didn’t ask to be washed, and, that women themselves always come up with problems literally out of the blue, and he could still vilify his things. But then he fell silent, and gave everything to the laundry.
It probably happens to many people. Perhaps there are even more such families than we think. One “doesn’t need anything” and he “didn’t ask for anything”, the second one tries for some reason, even though no one asked him about it. And everyone is dissatisfied. Wives say that their husbands are cold and uninitiated. Husbands that their spouses cannot do without fuss, constantly arranging it out of the blue. Children complain that parents constantly climb into their lives, and the parents themselves are very worried about their children. And here it is quite difficult to figure out who is right and who is wrong. But you know, I have an opinion on this matter, and I always adhere to it.
Here a man says that he does not need anything, and that he did not ask for anything, but does he use the fruits of the labor of the person who helps him. Does he eat the dinners that are prepared for him, does he sleep on clean bedding, does he share a meal at a festive table, which he did not want to assemble, and as a result did not participate in the organization in any way, does a person use other people's money?
This man, named Sasha, settled down very well, he chose a position that was quite advantageous. He says that he doesn’t need anything, that everything around is vanity, and then he himself slurps hot cabbage soup with sour cream, which he didn’t ask for. buy, and calls his friends from the phone, the balance of which was replenished by his wife, although he did not ask her again about this. Sooner or later, the moment will come when his wife Olga will get tired of this fuss, she will get tired of helping, because they don’t ask her, they don’t thank her, but they use what she does, eat what she trains.
I think if a person enjoys the fruits of someone else's labor, then one should not brush aside with one's own hands. You won’t be able to sit on two chairs, sooner or later you will bang on the floor!
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