Men and women are completely different creatures. We look at things differently, think differently, and express our feelings in different ways. Therefore, I think it will be a big surprise for many of you to learn these secrets about our dear men!
A man will always try to be better than other men.
In love, in work, in any other, your man will always imagine what place he occupies in the ranking among men, and will strive to take the very first place. Everything that a man does, he does not just like that, namely by increasing his rating, competing with other men.
We, women, having met, for example, with a friend, just chat and go about our business, we will not prove anything to each other, unlike men. Men will first exchange ratings at the meeting, tell each other who is doing what, who has achieved what, who has bought what, etc. And if women can be friends with each other, regardless of what they have achieved and what they have acquired, then men with different ratings cannot be friends will become.
And what can be said? Don't try to outdo the man. Very often you can meet such a situation when a low-income girl marries a rich man. But when a poor man marries a rich woman, this is much less common. And the point is not that a rich woman will not be able to condescend to a low-income groom, but that he himself will suffer and torment himself with thoughts that he is not able to achieve anything, and surpass his beloved.
Men don't like it when women talk a lot
These long conversations of ours about everything and nothing terribly annoy men. We can discuss anything among ourselves, but when we try to do this with men, they ready to fly to the moon, fall through the earth, disappear forever, if only not to get involved. If you want to chat with your girlfriend, do it when your man is not around!
And, if it occurred to you to discuss with him some of your female "nonsense", then think a thousand times whether it's worth the risk. The man finds it meaningless and empty. When you force a man to talk to you, lamenting that he does not pay attention to you, he hears something like: "Kalyamalya." Long conversations about the mental anguish of a woman make a man very tired, he gets tired of them. In particular, do not start all these conversations before going to bed.
If you lack care and attention, do not talk about it in a veiled, confused, incomprehensible way, speak specifically, directly and briefly.
men are very jealous
Male and female jealousy are very different from each other. We, women, of course, are sometimes capable of being jealous of a partner for anyone out of the blue, but then we forgive him rather quickly. Men, on the other hand, will remember until the end of their lives who you smiled at, who complimented you, who looked at you, and who drove you home. Someone will be silent, and silently torment themselves with jealousy, and someone at any opportunity will remind: “Do you remember ???”
By the way, a woman who is jealous of a man arouses genuine interest in him. But you don’t need to use this, flirting with men with might and main. First, the man, of course, will turn on the male, and will try to surpass the rest in some ratings, but this will pass quickly enough.
Men in communication with us pretend and lie a lot
Yes, even when telling something about work, about meeting a friend, about their actions, men, as a rule, at least a little, but lie to add more deliciousness and effect to the story. This is necessary in order for women to admire them!
Therefore, if you notice this for your man, calm down and pretend that you did not pay attention to his little lie. And do not think that your man is a liar, if he embellishes circumstances a little, he does this to please you more, to make you laugh, surprise, etc.
I think, knowing such men's secrets. You can start to understand them as much as possible! Good luck with this!
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