What is shock? This is when everything shook, and suddenly what was below was on top, and what was on top fell down. And it happens in our life too. You live, you live, and then bam, and everything turned upside down, shook, changed, and sometimes not for the better!
One man worked as an ordinary janitor, and his brother was engaged in weddings, anniversaries, and various events. My brother had a lot of money, and he laughed at his relative that he plows for a regular salary and sees nothing in life. It is not good to laugh at those who chose simple, honest, albeit poorly paid work, it is low. And then there was a crisis, or something else, and my brother's business burned down. Nobody calls him about events, he has nothing to live on, and he needs to feed his family, he got loans, up to his ears in debts, and, behold, he goes to his relative, whom he laughed at, in order to borrow at least a little from him, because there are children want.
Or another story. A woman went to a successful lady psychologist, complained about life, that she wants to develop, but her husband does not share her aspirations, no, it doesn’t stop her, but she doesn’t go to theaters with her, doesn’t understand the classics, callous, quiet, lives for herself measuredly. The psychologist advises to divorce such a man. The woman listens, thinks a lot, but does not dare. Her husband is a military doctor, he works very hard, but his life is too ordinary, as it seems to her.
And then bam, and the husband of this woman becomes a real hero, manifests himself. He works like this for days, but he provides for the whole family, and in general he turned out to be very interesting, bright, cheerful, although he never went to the theater, perhaps for now. And that lady psychologist still lives alone, without a husband, and she began to work less, she is lonely, she even agrees to even such a quiet and callous man with no desire to develop. But there is no one!
And one elderly woman lived in a private house, quietly lived her pension, worked a lot in the garden, did all sorts of twists for the winter. She invited all her son and his family to come to visit, and help at the same time. But once a son, instead of going on vacation to his mother, he takes a loan and flies to hot countries, there is the sea, sand, another life, rich, you don’t need to work, just rest, you deserve it. So the man got stuck in one of the resorts, went on a spree, quit, and did not return to the family. The wife could not stand it, she was just fired, and she went to live with a kind mother-in-law, work in the garden, eat her pickles. But the mother-in-law also has a pension and good savings, but there are no loans. The old woman asked before her son to at least bring water to her house, but he said that he had no money. Now his wife and children go to the pump with buckets to simply wash themselves. Life in a private house, of course, is not hot countries, and not an apartment in the city center on the 20th floor, but all the products are our own, and the air is so clean.
Here they are, shocks. You never know what awaits you next, what will happen to you later. Therefore, one must always remain human. You can’t laugh at those whose life didn’t work out, you can’t point your finger and shout: “loser.” It remains to be seen how fate will turn out, and who will actually become a loser. You may have to transfer from the first row to the last one, from business class to economy, from a high-rise building move to a private house, and turn from a successful businessman into an ordinary average worker!
You never know how life will turn out, and you have to treat everyone well - both wealthy and not very well off!
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