Most women who have experienced infidelity say they had doubts about their spouse's fidelity. They felt/understood/suspected that they were being cheated on, but carefully turned a blind eye to it.
The female sex has a well-developed intuition and it is difficult to deceive this natural function. But, each of the deceived women preferred to pretend that everything was fine. Until the problems became unsolvable and the mystery was so open that it was impossible not to see it. But, sooner or later, everything secret becomes clear.
And...there is an explosion. All suspicions and negative emotions pour out in an instant, destroying everything in its path. Marriages fall apart, women are left alone with themselves, broken hearts and low self-esteem.
In order to prevent the destruction of yourself and your marriage, it is necessary at the initial stages to take control of the situation, and not to pretend that nothing is happening.
First of all, pay attention to the behavior that most likely signals that your spouse is having an affair or relationship on the side.
And so, signs that your husband is cheating on you:
- He drops calls when you are together and does not read SMS. He may not answer even your friends. This happens automatically if there is a possibility that a person with whom he wants to hide from you can call or write to him. It will ignore all incoming messages to avoid exposure.
- He leaves for the holidays for a couple of hours "at work", stays longer than usual, motivating this with emergency work and heavy workload. Breaks out of the house for sudden meetings. At the same time, you feel that you are being deceived. A woman always feels a lie. But you can't prove anything. Or don't want to.
- You feel coldness in relationships and indifference to you and your desires. The man moves away and seems to be deliberately building a wall between you in order to minimize your closeness and common interests. He does not react willingly to your attempts to change something, and in every possible way tries to slip away from your proposals to change the situation.
If at least one of the signs is present in your relationship for a short period of time (1-5 months), try to gradually improve your married life. Most likely, you have moved away from each other and the man has an acquaintance / girlfriend / colleague who gives him female energy, but you can still return it.
If all three signs are present and for quite a long time (from six months to infinity), then with with a 99% chance your husband has another woman and in order to return everything to normal, you will have to try.
And remember, before you try to get to the bottom of the truth, instead of changing the situation and returning the love and intimacy of a man, answer yourself the following questions:
Are you ready to accept the fact of cheating?
What will you do with this information?
Or maybe it's more convenient for you to live by closing your eyes to it?