You did not notice such a strange thing that the stronger a person, the more difficulties he encounters in life. Do you know how they say that God gives a person exactly as many trials as he is able to endure? I think this is what works with strong people. Life constantly beats them, but they overcome everything, and move on, becoming stronger.
But how do you mentally deal with it? It is important to gain experience from all the failures and mistakes you make, to draw conclusions, it is important to understand that all obstacles only make you even stronger. Yes, it is difficult - constantly fighting with something or someone, but otherwise it will not work.
Don't lose hope. Sometimes in life, of course, there will be times when you think that everything is terrible, and it will never get better. You will experience discomfort from such thoughts, and each of your subsequent days will turn into a real test. But what keeps you moving forward, against all odds? And because a strong personality always has hope, it will be she who will move forward and help to believe that everything will work out.
Besides, it is the strong man who appreciates the light much more than everyone else, because he was in the dark! A person becomes strong because life has beaten him more than once. He experienced a lot of difficulties that taught him something necessary, necessary.
At times, a strong person, going into the light, will go back into the darkness, filling himself with strength and restoring himself. And if his life were ordinary and too simple, he would simply not be interested.
A strong person is not afraid to let new people into his life, but he will not allow any negative actions and words from the outside to lower his self-esteem.
A strong person listens to himself, not strangers, and he is able to heal himself. A strong person is not afraid to make mistakes, but does not allow the mistakes he makes to knock him down. He just learns and goes forward, becoming more and more stronger, to such an extent that it is already impossible to break him.
Or maybe strong people themselves attract failures?
No, every person has setbacks along the way, it's just that each of us copes with them in our own way. Someone runs away from problems, and someone tries to solve them. A strong person does not run away from difficulties and failures, but thinks out how to solve everything. It is possible that, solving some problem, he will fail again, but he will try to do at least something, while the weak one will sit and wait for everything to resolve itself.
If a strong personality sees a person who is beaten by difficulties, he understands how much it hurts. Strong people know that a person can become strong only by conquering their inner self-doubt. They never give up, they always develop, they always go forward.
Unfortunately, very often strong people associate their lives with difficult personalities, and also choose difficult jobs for themselves. But they do it!
Difficulties that a strong person meets, they do not break him. They make him much stronger and prepare him for other difficulties. Therefore, it seems that failures themselves stick to the strong. In fact, they just learned to deal with them on their own, and just go ahead while the rest are hiding.
Never give up, over time you will realize that you are able to overcome anything, while the rest sit in a secluded corner, afraid to take a new step!
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