Previously, it was believed that there are some kind of karmic relationship between a man and a woman that can bring joy, or, on the contrary, pain, teach something, help draw conclusions. It seems like a man and a woman meet, and then part at the right stage. But I want to highlight 3 types of relationships that also met in the life of almost everyone. All of them are also needed for something and most often lead to a logical conclusion and parting.
Relationships between traumatized people
Here, I think, everything is immediately clear. This is when people meet after having experienced some kind of bad relationship. Unfortunately, these relationships do not always work out well. Because that's where the substitution syndrome comes into play. You are trying to fill the void with another person, or he is trying to drown out the pain from a previous romance, experiencing more or less vivid emotions with you. Over time, you begin to compare the current man with the former, revealing that in some ways he is better, and in some ways worse. More often, such relationships are needed in order to heal, forget about a certain trauma, rethink everything that happens, and most likely, move on without a partner.
Partnerships
They are tied between equal partners, so to speak. Look, there are such relationships. Let's say you are jealous of your partner, make him do something, babysit him, and he does the same with you in return. Or you are a self-confident and self-sufficient woman, you provide for yourself, you have achieved everything on your own, and your partner is the same. The main principle on which such relations are built is respect for each other. As soon as everything does not go according to plan and one partner begins to "crush" the other, the relationship will quickly fall apart.
Healing Relationships
The purpose of such a relationship is to make up for what you could lose in past relationships, to return what you want, to close holes in your soul and heart. Namely, in them a person receives delight, respect, compassion and love. If you have experienced painful relationships in the past, and previously dissolved in a man, then in these relationships you can meet such a man who will do absolutely everything for you.
But, unfortunately, such relationships are needed only for healing, and most often they are not for long. It is important to accept this and live on, otherwise new holes and suffering will appear.
What if there is no permanent relationship?
Do people around you still tell you that everyone should have a relationship? Now it's stupid to think so. This is stereotypical thinking, which should not be followed. There are so many young people now who are determined not to have children. Or maybe they have some other mission in this life? Not every soul incarnating on Earth has a relationship program.
Can a relationship be completely harmonious?
No need to wait that someday you will meet an ideal partner, and you will have an ideal relationship, harmonious from all sides. Well, what does “harmonious” relationship mean anyway? If you look from the side of nature, do animals have such? Not! You can name just a few species of fauna in which there really are relationships. Others have one male and many females. And in general, the male comes only to inseminate a certain female, and then leaves.
So this is a harmonious relationship, if viewed from the point of view of the animal world, and everything else was invented by people, how it should be, and how it should not. Hence the conclusion that harmonious relationships for you personally are those that suit you, in which you are not stuffy, calm and reliable.
Tell us in the comments, have you had these types of relationships? What is a harmonious relationship for you? And what do you think, is it necessary for a person to build a relationship with someone?
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