I already told the situation of my friend, who married for love, knew that her husband had a child from his first marriage, but at first everything suited her. And then the husband’s child began to practically live in their house, and the husband himself made my girlfriend fall in love with his son. So today I will tell you another story on a similar topic.
Oksana is 25 years old. She had a very great love with a man, the relationship was sick, they quarreled a lot, but they stayed together again. As a result, Oksana could not stand it, and left him. Then for two years she was depressed, she even got addicted to sedatives that a psychiatrist prescribed for her.
And then Oksana met Igor. The man came to work in the same company where Oksana had been working for a long time. A good relationship developed between them. At first, the couple dined together, then they began to walk together in the park, talking a lot. Over time, a romance began. Oksana enjoyed every moment spent with her boyfriend. She felt very good with him, easily, calmly, she suddenly felt like a happy woman.
But Igor suddenly stunned Oksana with unexpected information. The woman knew that the groom had a previous marriage, that he was divorced. But for some reason Igor kept silent about the fact that in that marriage his daughter was born! He, of course, apologized for a long time, explaining his silence by the fact that he did not know how Oksana would react to this. It is, after all, someone else's child. But the woman reacted to this with understanding. Everyone has a different life, and different situations can develop. Igor was in no hurry to get acquainted, he was afraid to injure a six-year-old child, but, to the surprise of everyone, the girl calmly reacted to her father's bride.
A little about the girl. Igor's situation with his ex-wife is unusual. During the divorce, the girl remained with her mother, but lived with her father. The grandmother, Igor's mother, was engaged in upbringing. Mom could bring the child to them after the garden, took her daughter only for the weekend, and on ordinary days they rarely saw each other. This is how it gets interesting for people. Oksana even felt a little sorry for the girl, because she doesn’t even know what real maternal love is.
After a successful acquaintance of Oksana with her daughter, Igor realized that it was time to act, and made an offer to the bride. And Oksana had already become attached to him, so she gave her consent. Of course, she was a little scared, especially when Igor's mother said: "You suit us, I hope you can love our Lenochka." But she decided that there was nothing wrong with that, the grandmother loves her granddaughter, worries about her, wants her to grow up in love and care.
In general, young people came together, all four of them settled in one apartment. A few days later, Oksana realized that Lenochka was a very spoiled child. She could eat what she wanted, watch cartoons all day, be rude to her elders. Oksana tried not to pay attention to her, because she understood that she was not her mother, and had no right to give advice. The woman simply spoke about Lenochka's behavior to Igor and her grandmother. In fact, they didn't do anything.
And somehow Lenochka gets into the refrigerator before dinner, takes out a bar of chocolate with nuts, and starts eating it. Oksana made a remark to her, but she looked at her with hatred. Then the woman just took and took away half of the remaining chocolate, and put it in the refrigerator. This is where the horror began. The girl with an inhuman scream rushed at Oksana and began to bite her. And she bit until she bled. The woman was very hurt, in order to somehow stop the evil one, she slapped her on the pope, she burst into tears and ran away. And in the evening, of course, I told my dad everything.
In the evening, Igor went into the kitchen to Oksana, and grabbed her by the shoulders with his hands:
- How dare you? How could you hit my daughter?
“But she bit me,” Oksana showed her bandaged hand.
“Everything is clear, you still couldn’t find a common language with her, you don’t suit us,” Igor turned around and went to his daughter.
Oksana opened her eyes. She simply packed her things, and, without a moment's hesitation, went to her mother. Finally, she could breathe calmly. And that family is now spreading bad rumors about her, they say that she injured the child's psyche. That's how it happens.
By the way, I think that the girl's psyche has long been traumatized. Mother does not live with her, they pay off her with sweets and gifts, and as soon as a stranger reprimands her, she shows her true face. It's sad to hear such stories. What do you think? Did Oksana do the right thing by leaving everything and leaving? Did she have the right to raise the daughter of her future husband?
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