Arina matured early. More precisely, her head worked like a child, but the desire to get married, have children, and live separately from her parents was always present. The girl gave birth to her son when she was only 18 years old. She was proud that she was dating an adult, settled in life, a man who provided for her from head to toe. But it so happened that Arina made a little mistake in choosing a partner. And she went to give birth when the father of the child was in prison.
Nikolai behaved responsibly, often wrote letters, called, spoke very pleasant words. Arina did not know that all the prisoners, while serving a sentence for their actions, become romantic, attentive, gallant. She really believed that her man was the best, and the fact that he thundered into prison was just an accident, it could happen to everyone. Besides, maybe he was framed. Nikolai came out when his son Leshka was 4 years old.
The man continued to build a real man out of himself, so he called Arina to marry in order to start a family. She waited, she didn’t walk with anyone, and her son is common, what is there to think. By the way, Arina's mother, more than the girl herself, wanted this wedding. But now it's not about that, but about the first and last rest of the newly-made family!
Arina has never been to the sea in her years. In addition, my son was already almost 5, I wanted to take him there so that he could breathe in the sea air, swim, try all sorts of sweets. And Arina saved up for her dream for a long time, saved from her salary, and she still managed to collect a small amount of money. In principle, it was possible to modestly relax.
But then Nikolai began to sit on his tail:
- I wonder where you are going to go on vacation?
- Kohl, I planned to take Lyoshka to the sea, they say that sea air is very useful, - Arina had to confess everything to her husband.
“So, are you going without me?” Che, will you walk with the suitors there, right? No, that will not do. I will also go with you, - Nikolai confidently announced his plans.
“Kolya, I have been saving for so long, but there is only enough money for two, I won’t pull the third one,” Arina got excited because she was afraid of her husband.
- So, Arinchik, let's not whine, I'll get the money. I should have a salary tomorrow, - Nikolai put his arm around his wife and kissed her on the forehead.
The next day, Nikolai was not given a patch, and on the next day, there was also silence. Arina was worried, it was time to take a ticket if her husband was really going to go with her.
“You know, kid, there really are some snags at work. Come on, buy a ticket with your own money, and then I will return it to you, as soon as the money is there - in fact, Nikolai himself did not even know when he would receive a salary and how much.
- But Kolya, I only have money left for accommodation and food. And if I buy you a ticket now, we’ll die of hunger there, ”Arina whispered almost with tears.
“So, little one, everything will be all right, I said,” Nikolai waved his wife away and took a sip of tea from a mug.
Arina was nervous, she understood that she simply had no choice, her husband would not let her go anywhere with her son. She had to buy a ticket for her husband. The next day, Nikolai came home late and very drunk, then Arina realized that he had received a salary and lost it all in a bar. The girl was determined to return her husband's ticket back and go without him. But he stopped her at the door:
- It's okay, so you'll go to bask in the sun, and I'll stay here in the dust of the city? You don't think I'm a human at all, do you? I also want to go to the sea!
Arina was afraid to argue with her husband. Therefore, she borrowed some money from friends, took out a piggy bank in which she saved money for the winter clothes, somehow managed to scrape together a normal amount, and the whole family set off on the appointed day relax.
But for Arina it was difficult to call it a vacation. Nikolai simply did not dry out, was rude to her, disappeared somewhere, and also stole money from his wife. It got to the point that Arina did not know how to feed her son. We bought potatoes and ate, and also went to the market, tried fruits, so you could at least eat something for free. And Nikolai was always with a bottle of beer while his family was looking for something to eat.
All those who lost weight returned home, Arina and Leshka, because they were always hungry, and Nikolai, because he had no time for food, he drank.
This is such a sad story! Isn't it time to get divorced from such a husband? Because Arina still tolerates his antics, although, it would seem, the point in their relationship has already been put!
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