“They meet by clothes”... They always used to say so, but then they began to add that appearance is completely unimportant, the main thing is how a person is and what is filled inside. And I will say that it is precisely by the appearance of a person that one can understand his attitude towards himself! Indeed, after all, for example, clothes are not just a bunch of patches sewn together, not just a fashionable suit that can reflect your place in society. No, your clothes are an additional and reinforcing (or maybe even weakening) factor for your individual self!
And your clothes are an indicator of how you feel about yourself. In ancient times, people made offerings to their Gods, showing respect for them, while asking them to fulfill some of their desires. And now your clothes are also a kind of offering only to your body. Clothing not only creates your outer image, but also reinforces the inner one! Or maybe, in the case of an unsuccessfully selected material or style, on the contrary, everything will only spoil.
Of course, a person should love himself and treat himself with respect. And putting on beautiful, neat clothes, he shows this respect for himself and his body! If a person really treats himself with respect, if he feels his uniqueness and originality, he will never wear wrinkled, dirty, old, too cheap, too fashionable clothes, in which millions walk, poor quality. He considers himself to be a unique personality and this is reflected in his special outfits!
With the help of clothing, a person sends a stream of his elusive and very subtle individuality to the outside world. With the help of outfits, it is embodied in the form of an external form, in the form of a certain color and style. Through the clothes we wear, we show our mood, and we also support it and even have a certain influence on others.
In general, now they are increasingly talking about the inner world, form, beauty, completely forgetting that a full-fledged image of a person is formed from two components - internal and external. With the help of clothes, a person emphasizes self-esteem, his mood, his character, with the help of clothes he is able to influence his inner state!
You know, I quite often met teachers, psychologists, and even teachers of aesthetics in rumpled outfits, some kind of faceless, shapeless clothes. I think that these people simply consider themselves impeccable connoisseurs, unique, charismatic, and therefore they are sure that their external image will not spoil anything. Unfortunately they are wrong. Their strange appearance is their own internal depreciation, loss of interest in themselves, as well as complete disrespect for others!
So your clothes are not a piece of fabric that hides your nakedness, it is an indicator of the uniqueness of your personality, your individuality, respect for others and for yourself, a way to express yourself, something that can change your mood.
So the next time you're in a hurry to change clothes on the run, think about how you'll impress others. Think about it, are you so indifferent to yourself that you are going to go in mint? With the help of your outfits, you show respect for yourself not only to everyone around you, but to yourself. Or you can show yourself neglect and indifference, lack of interest in life and everything that is happening around.
If you really respect yourself and consider yourself an interesting, worthy person, then you should learn to express yourself beautifully!
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