Watching modern men and women, it becomes clear that in terms of implementation and social significance, we have become equal. The family model, where the man is the main one, is becoming a thing of the past and more and more often - both partners are equal.
And, unfortunately, not all men are ready to be in such a role. Millions of years of evolution have put a desire for superiority in their genes, and they want to be important and in control.
Therefore, in this article, I would like to discuss this important topic and understand how a woman who is realized and good in all respects can find her happiness?
First of all, I want to note that there are not enough good and realized men for everyone and many wonderful girls cannot find a partner that suits them. And men who are slightly lower in status cannot be happy in unequal relationships if they are really real men.
This situation leads to the fact that girls get married and give birth to children from the wrong men, realizing that "the clock is ticking", and men, realizing that in marriage they do not reach their wife, they fall into aggression and apathy, because everyone has different opportunities and not everyone is able to achieve heights.
At the moment, our society is in the process of accepting that not only a man can be the breadwinner and head of the family. But it may take a hundred years before this becomes the norm. After all, don’t say anything, but nature takes its toll and a man wants to be stronger. And being in a relationship where a woman is more successful, smarter and more ambitious, he becomes either aggressive, from the inability to change the situation, or passive, from the understanding that everything will be done for him anyway. Particularly temperamental find a lover who is not as strong and independent as his wife, who admires him and sees a man in him and at the expense of her realize their potential.
And the answer to the question: how can a successful woman meet her happiness is simple - you need to stop "measuring personal belongings" with a man, learn to enjoy each other and love.
And if you are lucky enough to meet a soul mate, accept him as he is, do not try to change him and humiliate him with your achievements. Life is not an easy thing and it comes down to more than just money. Negotiate on the shore about finances, children, mortgages and more. Make a marriage contract and live happily. Rejoice for each other, listen to each other and love.
And do not look for ideals - they are not.
