Now any family that cannot pull off the purchase of an apartment has the opportunity to purchase housing on a mortgage. And it is very good when there are also rich relatives who can help financially. Of course, they are not obliged to do this, but after all, people are not strangers!
Nikolai and Elena got married 4 years ago. They did not arrange any magnificent wedding, they decided it was better to save money to buy their own home. They simply signed, gathered their relatives modestly, warning them in advance to give only money.
For the wedding, they managed to collect only 300,000 rubles. The amount is good, but it is not enough to buy an apartment. Of course, the couple hoped that they would collect at least half of the cost, but they didn’t get so lucky. Nikolai has a lot of wealthy relatives, so it was decided to ask them for the missing amount in debt. So they did.
Scored a larger amount, and decided to take a mortgage. So over time they became the owners of a spacious renovated kopeck piece. Both Elena and Nikolai had to work very hard, and practically deny themselves everything. Of course, they were simply deep in debt, and literally saved every penny.
And then, like a bolt from the blue, a divorce! All the relatives are in shock, no one knows the reasons, but they didn’t have to think for a long time, because a couple of months later Nikolai and Elena again applied to the registry office.
“Now we will definitely celebrate the wedding on a grand scale. This is the last time we did not go out, so we got divorced. And now everything will be completely different. And I want a white dress, and a rich banquet in a restaurant, and dancing with songs until the morning, - Elena dreamed, inviting all relatives to the celebration.
Relatives did not understand at all why they should again participate in all this masquerade, again give something, again rejoice at the creation of a “new cell”. Everyone advised the "young" to first pay off their debts, and then roll up a feast. But the idea hit Elena’s head so much that because of their first meagerly-poor wedding they parted, that it was simply impossible to convince her. Nikolay is not at all clear what he was thinking. In short, the couple took out all their savings, took another loan, and threw a holiday!
The celebration turned out great! Tamada, competitions, limousine, fireworks, photographer, videographer. In general, everything turned out as planned, with the exception of one nuance. About half a million rubles were spent on the wedding, but only half was recaptured! Elena planned that they would compensate for the entire wedding, and they would still be in the black, but, as it turned out, the idea was more than stupid.
As a result, the couple remained all in loans, with a mortgage and with debts to relatives. They got offended with greedy relatives, and do not want to communicate with them. And they keep calling, asking when they will pay back their debts.
There's nowhere to get money! All the savings went to the wedding, and Nikolai was fired from his job almost immediately after the wedding, and Elena became pregnant! There was nothing to pay the mortgage, no one lends money anymore.
- It's all because of you! You have a whole bunch of money, but they couldn’t give a normal gift for a wedding! Greedy hypocrites! Elena screamed.
Relatives did not tolerate such antics, and simply asked the girl not to bother them anymore. The “young” had to move for the time being to live with their mother-in-law, because they simply had no other options. The apartment, which was taken on a mortgage, began to be rented by the day, in order to at least somehow recoup loans.
Nikolai never goes anywhere to work. There are options, but he does not like everything, everything is wrong. Elena cries, demands money from him, says to take it from her relatives.
“I won’t let anyone see my child, since no one helps me with a mortgage,” Elena takes everyone to the show.
She is sure that her husband's relatives are obliged to help them, since he himself is not able to provide for the family. The mother-in-law could not stand this, withdrew all her savings and gave it to the children, and they immediately paid off the mortgage. Only in vain did she do it, now they “stick” to her, for Elena she immediately began to be called “mother”, and the woman dutifully gives them money for any needs.
And Nikolai seemed to have lifted the veil from his eyes, and now he wildly regrets that he married his insatiable wife for the second time ...
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