We are all imperfect, just like the world around us. Life will not adapt to human expectations. Therefore, you need to accept it with all the imperfections, otherwise it will force you later!
Here are the facts that it's time for everyone to accept
There is no justice!
We are born in families of different social status, each of us has a certain character, appearance. Someone is well-fed, and someone is thin, someone has a wealthy mother and father, and someone has drunks without a penny, someone is very serious, and someone, on the contrary, is infantile. And the truth is that no one cares! Life is an unfair thing, and gives us a completely different start, but only we choose - to suffer or accept everything!
Mistakes are uncomfortable, but necessary
We try to protect our children from making our mistakes in the past. But it's time to stop doing it. Because they learn from their own mistakes, as well as gain experience, grow as a person. Yes, it is unpleasant to make mistakes, but it is a necessity for everyone.
Self pity won't help you
I know so many people who have degraded to such an extent because of this very self-pity! Yes, everyone gets sick and hurts. Need to see a doctor urgently, but no money? Weight is growing, but by the summer I would like it to be the other way around? And what are you doing? Cry into your pillow and it helps you, doesn't it? But for how long? For an hour or two? No one will come and solve your problems. Until you yourself get up and start overcoming your difficulties, nothing will change. Need money? Work, look for options, borrow, earn extra money. Wanted to lose weight? Well, who is stopping you from closing your mouth and not eating in the quantities you eat?
It's very hard to earn money
Nowadays, not working is just a horror. I know a lot of adults who live at the expense of their ever-working children, at the expense of credit cards, which are then also paid for by children, parents and other relatives. Working is real work. It is very easy to spend, but not everyone can earn. Unfortunately, now there are many men who do not want to work at all, but dream of easy income, winnings in the casino, the lottery. But nothing will work. In this life, you can earn only with your spine, and nothing else.
Friends must be earned
Everyone probably dreams of such friendship as in the movies. About faithful, devoted comrades who will be there in any situation. But such people are really worth their weight in gold. Friends must be earned, they will not appear with an evil person who hates everything and everyone, who lives exclusively for himself.
Women love those men who can
Who can earn, be smarter, stronger, who can solve problems, who can put up, support, help, love. But whiners who are looking for excuses, shifting responsibility to others, abusers, manipulators, toxic people who constantly suffer - they definitely do not like. And men need to accept this fact, and who can’t, go on insulting ladies on social networks, that’s all you know how to do!
Happiness must be earned, and life is very painful
When you once again do not want to do something, and instead you prefer to rest, remember that a person even comes to this world with pain and suffering! If you constantly hide, cry, lie down and do nothing, your life will not change. You won't make money, you won't make friends, you won't find happiness. After all, happiness must be earned! Only when a person accepts this fact, he will begin to appreciate those moments in which everything is really fine with him.
Only by accepting these truths will you be able to live a fulfilling life!
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