They say that women cannot be understood, that they are so sensitive and sometimes strange. But men have their quirks too. And they, too, are prone to hysteria literally out of the blue! Of course, they do not react painfully and inadequately to everything in a row. But still, there are things that really piss them off.
There are things that can really offend your partner. If you do not want to quarrel with your beloved, then it is better to avoid such topics, well, but if you are determined to quarrel with him, then, well, everything is in your hands.
Things a man will take offense at
You will take control of it
What does it mean? Men do not like to be controlled, probably because of this they are so scared to marry women. They do not want anyone to encroach on their freedom. So, tracking a partner's contacts, checking his mail, life on a social network, jealousy out of the blue, suspicion. All this is real control. Here a man lingered after work, and then you showed him from the doorway where he was and what he was doing. He went to see his friends, and you call him 100 times, asking where he is and when he will return.
Many women are so brazenly meddling in the lives of their men that they are ready to run away, far away, just to no longer be subjected to excessive control.
You tell him he doesn't suit you in bed
This is the toughest thing a woman can do! If you are planning to build a relationship with a man further, then never, hear, NEVER even stutter about his jambs in bed! This also includes ignoring his male needs, constant refusal to have sex, lack of emotions during lovemaking. This behavior will show the man that he is generally zero without a wand, and will definitely turn him away from you. He will rush to look for another woman to assure himself that he is a wonderful lover.
You will begin to criticize him in front of his friends and relatives.
You are all silent, well, or you still present something to your partner, and then you start complaining about him to people close to him. He does not wash the dishes, is rude, lazy, bored, and maybe even in bed a complete zero! Oh, immediately pack your things and run, he will be offended and will never forgive!
You will begin to disrespectfully communicate with his relatives.
Indeed, who are they in general for you to respect them? If you tell his mom straight on the forehead that she looks so-so, his father, that he is not trying to business, and to his friends, let's say that they are all idlers and parasites, then this will certainly offend your man.
Will you try to change it
And you will start to do it in a very rough way. Without motivation, hints, incentives, but just "phi". And all this will be accompanied by offensive phrases, humiliation, excessive offensive straightforwardness.
You won't praise him
It only seems that only women need compliments and praise, in fact, men also need them, and not to a lesser extent. And in general, the men should be praised for the washed dishes, and for the repaired tap, and for helping with the bags. They are the same as children. Praise - he will continue to try to please you, but let him pass by your eyes and ears, in general, he will score on all his duties, and will not try for you.
You will tell him about your exes.
Especially if you once had a whirlwind romance and true love. Although they say that there should be no secrets in a couple, it is better not to spread the juicy details of your intimate life.
You will begin to show attention to his friend!
Oh, this is the hottest! If you want to anger and trample your man, you will definitely succeed.
I am in no way trying to "help" you to part with your partner. On the contrary, I try to warn you against mistakes. Do not offend your beloved, do not, well, of course, unless he offends you too. Otherwise ...
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