Nowadays, you will not surprise anyone with such a thing: there are a lot of marriages in our time, where the husband is 10, 20, 30 and more years older than his wife. I talked to someone like that, he honestly poured out his whole soul to me. She says that men of any age love young girls, and they seem even more attractive to them when the stronger sex gets older and older. I was interested in another thing, how adult men manage to attract young ones, which my friend happily told me about.
At first, when an adult man sees a young girl, he really wants to talk to her, but it is the age difference that stops him. He even becomes a little ashamed that he is older than her. There is some kind of inconvenience, because it is difficult to understand whether it is worth flirting with a girl, how she will react, whether she likes grown men? But, as it turned out, all these questions are only in the man's mind.
Yes, some girls are perplexed when an adult man approaches them: “What does he want? What does he need?" But the majority still really like such acquaintances. And to some, such communication seems to be something forbidden, and therefore sweet.
Of great importance is where exactly an adult man meets a young girl. If in a club where a girl is with friends, then the chances are less. Because she will think about the opinions and reactions of friends.
What can a grown man offer to a young lady?
You know, there is a big difference between men, where one chooses a younger lady, and the second one of the same age, because he is afraid of rejection by the young. So the one who nevertheless builds relationships with the young, is not afraid of his age, is not afraid of rejection, understands his advantages over young guys. And the girl will either understand it or not.
My friend says that if you know one trick when meeting a young girl, then everything will definitely work out. And this is a trick: to know how to answer the question: "Aren't you too old for me?" This question may sound in a different interpretation, but sooner or later it will be.
My friend was 30, and he met a young girl at a party. Long flirting, communication, smiles, and then she asks if he knows how old she is. Then he adds that she is 18, he replies: “And I'm 30, but I don't care about our difference! And I think to you too! " That's all, their romance was long and colorful, and no one was embarrassed by the age difference. Therefore, it is worth remembering that as long as the age difference is a problem for a man, it will be a problem for a woman as well. If a man is confident in himself, if he knows about his advantages, then there will be no problems in communication at all.
When an adult man meets a young girl, his appearance is very important. I think it's not just women who need to buy something trendy and stylish. A stylish man is incredibly beautiful and attractive! An acquaintance of mine said that a man shouldn't look like his father, but he shouldn't look like his teenage son either.
When we choose our partner for life, biological factors play an important role. Still, most men want relationships with young girls. And what about the girls? We need reliability and a sense of security, stability from a man. Women of any age need a man next to him who is confident in himself and knows what he wants from life. Unfortunately, nowadays few young guys can offer this to their girls. That is why adults have much more chances!
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