We all grew up on Disney cartoons, and we remember what romantic relationships were shown there. This is probably why we sometimes expect too much from love. But life is completely different, it cannot be like in beautiful paintings. It is worth understanding when expectations are unrealistic in order to be able to adjust them. Or maybe you, too, were waiting for a prince on a white horse, and now you want too much from your partner?
How do you know if you are going overboard?
You feel like other couples have better relationships than you do.
You sometimes even look at others with some kind of envy, it seems to you that everything is much more romantic, more beautiful, better with others. You are sure that your couple is not as strong and loving as others. If you really think so, then you are unrealistic about the situation. There are no ideal people and there are no ideal relationships in everything. If you continue to look for who is better, then you can ruin your own relationship!
You get very upset when your partner can't guess what you're thinking.
You think that you already know each other enough, and from this you are sure that your partner should guess what you want and what not, what you feel, what do you think about, what do you need, etc. In this case, it is high time for you to grow up, this behavior is more suitable for young capricious girls. It remains only to stomp your foot and puff out your lips. No one can read minds. If you need something, you want something, you think about something - tell your partner about it. Learn to speak!
You want to become the center of the universe for your partner
You seem to understand that each person has their own life, but you still try to be the most important for your partner. You want him to always be able to drop everything and come running to you, in spite of his deeds. You want to be in the first place for him. But is it fair and honest? A man can have a life besides you, hobbies, work, friends. Everyone has the right to do so!
You want your partner to pamper you and please you in everything
I agree, it's great when a man sometimes spoils his beloved as if she were a queen, but you shouldn't go overboard. You are not really a queen, and your man is not your servant! He, of course, should show you signs of attention, take care of you, show you his feelings, but just like you to him. He should love and respect you, but not do everything to make you feel like royalty!
You want your love to be like a movie
Many women wait until old age for their prince on a white horse. They believe that he will definitely appear on the horizon and take them to a fabulous distance. But all these are just dreams, and it's time to really look at the world.
You worry about how your relationship looks from the outside.
You even have some kind of obsession! You try to post your joint photos more often on the network so that everyone looks at you and considers you an ideal couple. You want everyone to envy your love, but instead of envy, you irritate people. It's time for you to start thinking about how to mend your relationships, instead of idealizing them in the eyes of others. What difference does it make how you look from the outside, what really matters is what really happens between you.
Life is too short to be wasted on constant expectations, nagging and resentment against your partner. And it's best to understand this as early as possible, realizing that you want too much from your partner!
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