For many people, loneliness seems like the worst thing in life. In addition, society hangs stereotypes and labels on us that each of us should have a soul mate. Well, like a man needs a man. But there are those who consciously choose loneliness.
We mistakenly believe that a single person is simply unsociable, unhappy in love, cannot find a partner for himself, that is why he is deeply unhappy, sad, and still certainly angry. But few people understand that being alone is much more comfortable like that, and they feel truly happy!
Here are things you need to know about people who choose to be alone.
They are curious
Yes, loners stay away from crowded companies, but this does not mean that they are shy and shy, and want to hide from everything. These people are open to everything new, they are constantly looking for something interesting for themselves. It's just that before you communicate with people, they need a little more time to collect their thoughts.
They are loyal
Loners do not at all strive for popularity, but if they find their soul mate, they remain faithful to it until the end of their days. By the way, did you know that love for many women and men is an escape from loneliness? A lone man will not let anyone into his world, but if you manage to enter his life, he will reward you in full.
They are engaged in self-discovery
Loners constantly analyze their thoughts, feelings, sensations. And they really know how to accept and understand themselves. This makes them successful. While a person remains alone, he understands himself much better. But thanks to the fact that loners are aware of their feelings, they begin to understand others much better. Yes, they also have depression, and anxiety also visits them, but they know exactly how to deal with it.
They are confident in their abilities
Loners are not used to relying on someone, they achieve everything with the help of their own strength. They do not panic, calmly analyze what is happening and make the right decision. These people are strong-willed and decisive, believe in their own strength, and withstand any difficulties with dignity. Of course, loners can feel insecure in certain situations, in such moments they simply shield themselves from others in order to recharge, and then move on.
They are punctual
Loners value time very highly. And they know that punctuality can be the key to a person's success. Therefore, they are never late, do not waste their precious time on some other people's business, and others are not allowed to do this.
They are tolerant
Loners understand that there are no perfect people and that everyone around is completely different. Yes, others have flaws, but they accept them.
They are empathic
Single people are capable of empathy and compassion. They are not afraid of loneliness, so they know how to cope with any disaster. They know how to listen, they know how to accept someone else's pain as their own, they will always support, give advice.
Loners can find positive sides in absolutely any situation. They are well aware of their strengths and weaknesses. Anyone who appreciates being alone will never become lonely!
Loners respect other people with their shortcomings, rules, they respect other people's boundaries, they never cross them and others are not allowed to cross the fine line.
You know, many of us have a lot to learn from singles. Most of us are social people, we need society, contact with people, conversations. Without this, some begin to wither. People who consciously choose loneliness, accept themselves, recognize themselves more and more, and they can even called great, because, despite their loneliness, they feel happy and filled!
Are there any real loners among your friends?
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