I constantly come across information on the Internet about how a man should behave in a relationship. And women always say in the comments that, they say, there are no such people at all. But, if your man is not like that, you can only sympathize. Because good men exist! And let's discuss today not their qualities, but how they do not behave in a relationship.
How does a good man not behave in a relationship?
He does not find fault with your appearance.
He will never say something like this: "If you had lost weight ...", "You would have had a different hairstyle ..." and so on. You will never hear from him unpleasant comments about your appearance. Of course, you should not turn into a scarecrow, and deliberately cause mixed feelings in a man. You need to take care of yourself, maintain weight, do hairstyles, make-up. But, if you have gained a little or decided to grow a long braid, your partner will not control you and tell you what to do and how. If he constantly comments on your appearance, then he wants to humiliate you, affect your self-esteem. It's control and emotional abuse. It doesn't have to be this way!
It does not violate your privacy
He will not pester you with questions: "Who called?", "Who did you see?", "Who are you writing to?" In relationships, if they are healthy, no one is anything hides, but this does not mean that, for example, your partner has the right to access your social network or phone, reading correspondence and tracking your activity. If everything is the other way around, it means that the man is not confident in you, does not trust you, and this is very unpleasant.
He does not deprive you of his support.
If he always gives you his support, then he is confident in himself. He does not humiliate you, does not offend, does not demotivate, on the contrary, next to him you grow wings, and there is more desire to achieve the goal.
He doesn't belittle you.
With him, you do not have to prove what you are worth, he appreciates you for who you are. He appreciates you not for what you do and how you look, he just knows that you are unique.
He doesn't put you in last place (or even second)
You are number 1 in his life! You never feel forgotten or abandoned. He has friends, family, work, but in any case, you are more important to him than all this. If you have to wait for him at home more often, instead of spending time with him, then it's time to reevaluate your relationship.
He does not leave you alone
The point is that next to him you never feel lonely. Relationships should make life better, not complicate it. Yes, a man can also have his own problems, a loss of energy, strength, a bad mood. But he is not indifferent to you and your problems. Therefore, you do not feel lonely.
He will not cheat on you
Do not just tell here that all men are polygamous, that there is not a single man who would not cheat on his partner! The faithful exist, they exist! If you come across completely different ones, this does not mean that everyone needs to be hated. Loyalty is a person's choice. And this is the choice of a good man!
He won't disrespect you.
He generally treats everyone with respect, and in particular to you. He does not offend you, does not humiliate you, and even less does he raise his hand!
He does not avoid difficult conversations.
He understands perfectly well that problems will not go anywhere if they are not discussed. He does not run away from conversations, is not afraid of conflicts, so he does not avoid them. After all, if you do this, then it will get worse and worse.
He does not abuse you
And we are talking here not only about physical, but also about emotional abuse. He is confident in himself, so he does not try to rise at the expense of others.
Here he is, a good man!
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