Parenting mistakes that are bad for children - what are they? What you shouldn't tell your child, how to avoid psychological pressure on your baby, and which parents are bad
1. Reprimand for the truth
You have no idea how much courage and courage it takes to confess to your parents and tell the truth. Do not scold her, even if the child has done something bad.
2. Public punishment
Without a twinge of conscience, can you yell, or even spank a child in public? Does it matter whether they are relatives or just passers-by? Know that every reproach and slap will remain a notch in his heart.
3. More tips, less rewards
Try at least sometimes to put aside your instructive texts and just support the baby. Don't say, "You should wake up earlier to keep up." It is better to replace it with: “You are very smart. I will help you wake up earlier so that you can get ready for school. "
4. There is no feedback
Pay attention to why the child provokes you or throws up scandals. Perhaps he lacks an emotional connection with his parent?
Often a child throws tantrums for a reason / istockphoto.com
5. No support at the right time
A child feels abandoned if, during a moment of emotional tension (for example, an exam), you do not give him time and attention. Everyone needs support, and children need help doubly.
6. Comparisons with others
A bad parent will always say: "Oh, here Kolya / Olya does better!" Do you practice this? Stop!
7. Do not get proud
Your reaction to a child's victory, whether it be a sports game or an Olympiad, is always dull and poor in praise. Be proud of your kids!
8. Criticizing tone
Leave criticism to yourself / istockphoto.com
Leave criticism to yourself / istockphoto.com
Everything the child does is evaluated. Usually negative or critical. Leave this trick in the past, it is useless!
9. Cry, you will go to the toilet less
Don't discount the tears of futility and the pain of a child. Let it seem to you that the situation is completely trifling, but for the baby it can become a whole tragedy.
10. More words, less action
The bad parent has all the advice in the language, but how to show in practice or implement the advice in life is not.
11. You are a bad example.
If you see obvious flaws in upbringing, stop, analyze. Maybe you are to blame for this, not the child?
12. No choice
If you decide for a child everything, from the one with whom be friendsand what to wear - you went the wrong way. The child needs a variety of choices!
13. I'll give it all
I will give everything, even a kidney! Fan parents who are willing to skimp on themselves in order to buy their child a new toy is the extreme of bad parenting. In this case, it is likely that the child will grow up spoiled.
14. Physical bullying
In a fit of anger, do you swing or "hang" over the child? Don't play with fire, it will turn against you.
15. Short Answers
Babies need advice in a soft form, with a sprinkle of wise words. Do not answer their problems and questions with short stubs of dry phrases, please.
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